I need to know I am not crazy..kind of long but need honest opinions

So yesterday I am sitting on the computer as FH is getting ready to go out. (His closet is in the computer room, he was nice enough to give me the walk in closet!) and he keeps taking shirt upon shirt out and they are all wrinkled. He makes a face and comments as so: 'My shirts are all wrinkled.' So I ask him: 'Do you need me to iron something?' His answer: 'No.' ok so case closed right? NO. About two minutes later he says: 'I think I am going to bring my shirts to my mother's house and she will iron them for me.'



I totally lost it! I mean, really lost it! I thought that was sooo inappropriate! I told him I just offered to iron for you! Maybe your mother ironed without you asking but I am still trying to learn how to live with someone and take care of them! He flipped saying I am disrespecting his mother and if he wants her to iron his shirts then I should let him.

I mean am I wrong to get p issed that he says he doesn't need anything ironed and then says he wants his mother to iron his shirts? I think she will think I am not taking care of 'her baby' as she always calls him...

Thanks, I just needed to vent.