I need to say this

Original post by MRSin2009

May 11, 2008 01:21 AM

Again I wanted to say I am sorry. I really am a nice person who truly made a mistake of writing some mean stuff on the board. I do not want to make excuses but at the time the board started I was in a bad place in my life. I was not working and had be laid off for 3 months and was just sad and I think on the brink of being depressed (ask my FH I was an emotional mess). I didn't tell anyone this on either board but the day after I found out I got a job my FH was laid off suddenly and it just made everything worse. FH and I were fighting a lot and honestly I didn't know if everything would work out.

I have felt so bad for the past two days and have never wanted or have hurt someone. I spoke to Lisa and Mich last night on the phone and we were all just sad and upset that anything like this happened. I really do like the girls I have met and really feel like a bad person for all that has happened. Like Lisa said if I could take it back I would in a heart beat.

I know its something that is not forgettable and would be just as upset as you girls are but I hope with time I can show you all the real me. I felt that the past three months I was not the real me in some cases because how I was in my personal life.

Well that's all I can say for now. Again I am so sorry and not because the board was found out but because I am a caring person and feel so horrible for the people hurt.

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted: May 11, 2008 12:44 PM

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Posted by IrishBrideASmiling

Im sorry if this comes out wrong or whatever, but all you girls who talked smack about people behind their backs, can you please keep the apologies to FMs or phone calls or whatever bc most of us do not know who said what about who on those boards and knew nothing about it. Obviously if you said something about someone its personal...lets keep it that way since everyone doesnt need to know or be reminded of the awful things that were said.

Even though you are apologizing and trying to do the right thing, its stirring up more trouble. For those of us who were not involved in any way and try to avoid the drama at all cost would like to go back to the way things should be...planning and helping each other with their weddings.

Again, sorry if this offends anyone but i felt like it had to be said.

agreed! im already tired of it... maybe because it didnt come as a surprse to me though... we'll all move on... it just takes some time! and def FM personal stuff ... good idea!

mdawg Posted: May 11, 2008 12:46 PM

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Posted by lookitscassie

Posted by mdawg

no, she still owes me $1800. ANDDD to top it off. my boyfriend lives across the street from her.... like he lives on one side of jericho tpke and she lives directly across it on the other side... i havent seen her yet, but im assuming i will soon...

oh dear god. that girl has issues lol i always steered clear of her. theyve all got issues lol

you dont know the HALF of the issues those people have. oh the stories i could tell.

IrishBrideASmiling Posted: May 11, 2008 12:46 PM

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

Posted by IrishBrideASmiling

Im sorry if this comes out wrong or whatever, but all you girls who talked smack about people behind their backs, can you please keep the apologies to FMs or phone calls or whatever bc most of us do not know who said what about who on those boards and knew nothing about it. Obviously if you said something about someone its personal...lets keep it that way since everyone doesnt need to know or be reminded of the awful things that were said.

Even though you are apologizing and trying to do the right thing, its stirring up more trouble. For those of us who were not involved in any way and try to avoid the drama at all cost would like to go back to the way things should be...planning and helping each other with their weddings.

Again, sorry if this offends anyone but i felt like it had to be said.

agreed! im already tired of it... maybe because it didnt come as a surprse to me though... we'll all move on... it just takes some time! and def FM personal stuff ... good idea!

Thanks! Im so sick of reading about it and I just want us all to move on...

Summertimegal424 Posted: May 11, 2008 12:47 PM

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Posted by IrishBrideASmiling

Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

Posted by IrishBrideASmiling

Im sorry if this comes out wrong or whatever, but all you girls who talked smack about people behind their backs, can you please keep the apologies to FMs or phone calls or whatever bc most of us do not know who said what about who on those boards and knew nothing about it. Obviously if you said something about someone its personal...lets keep it that way since everyone doesnt need to know or be reminded of the awful things that were said.

Even though you are apologizing and trying to do the right thing, its stirring up more trouble. For those of us who were not involved in any way and try to avoid the drama at all cost would like to go back to the way things should be...planning and helping each other with their weddings.

Again, sorry if this offends anyone but i felt like it had to be said.

agreed! im already tired of it... maybe because it didnt come as a surprse to me though... we'll all move on... it just takes some time! and def FM personal stuff ... good idea!

Thanks! Im so sick of reading about it and I just want us all to move on...

lol i agree!

LegoBride Posted: May 11, 2008 12:50 PM

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I agree - I think many of the girls will be gone now so we can go back to enjoying wedding planning. When's the next gtg?

Soon2BMrsC09 Posted: May 11, 2008 12:51 PM

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i think we are tentatively trying to work on a sunday evening i think june 8th? somewhere in nassau was what i got from the last GTG thread..

Summertimegal424 Posted: May 11, 2008 12:52 PM

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we had said june 8th as a possible date....

LegoBride Posted: May 11, 2008 12:55 PM

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Grrr I'm taking my e-pics in the city that night

MrsDtoBe09 Posted: May 11, 2008 12:55 PM

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You know what... I have to say THIS...

there's a lot of girls dealing with bad s hit on this board - we have one amazingly strong woman who battled cancer - has she ever bashed or badmouthed a soul? NO! Everyone has problems in one way or another. That in no way excuses the juvenile behavior and disgusting name calling that you girls did. I believe you even said you 'mistakingly' called people names... that was no mistake.

Women dont bash other women because of the bad luck they seem to have fallen into... women bash other women because they're jealous.

I'm a strong person and I dont care if people call me a b itch. You know what, if you think I've acted like a b itch to you, it's probably because you're an idiot - point blank.

lookitscassie Posted: May 11, 2008 12:56 PM

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Posted by MrsDtoBe09

You know what... I have to say THIS...

there's a lot of girls dealing with bad s hit on this board - we have one amazingly strong woman who battled cancer - has she ever bashed or badmouthed a soul? NO! Everyone has problems in one way or another. That in no way excuses the juvenile behavior and disgusting name calling that you girls did. I believe you even said you 'mistakingly' called people names... that was no mistake.

Women dont bash other women because of the bad luck they seem to have fallen into... women bash other women because they're jealous.

I'm a strong person and I dont care if people call me a b itch. You know what, if you think I've acted like a b itch to you, it's probably because you're an idiot - point blank.

Jamnike Posted: May 11, 2008 01:00 PM

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Posted by lookitscassie

Posted by MrsDtoBe09

You know what... I have to say THIS...

there's a lot of girls dealing with bad s hit on this board - we have one amazingly strong woman who battled cancer - has she ever bashed or badmouthed a soul? NO! Everyone has problems in one way or another. That in no way excuses the juvenile behavior and disgusting name calling that you girls did. I believe you even said you 'mistakingly' called people names... that was no mistake.

Women dont bash other women because of the bad luck they seem to have fallen into... women bash other women because they're jealous.

I'm a strong person and I dont care if people call me a b itch. You know what, if you think I've acted like a b itch to you, it's probably because you're an idiot - point blank.

I dont even know what happened but i dont think that anyone could have said anything more true!

LegoBride Posted: May 11, 2008 01:05 PM

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Posted by MrsDtoBe09

You know what... I have to say THIS...

there's a lot of girls dealing with bad s hit on this board - we have one amazingly strong woman who battled cancer - has she ever bashed or badmouthed a soul? NO! Everyone has problems in one way or another. That in no way excuses the juvenile behavior and disgusting name calling that you girls did. I believe you even said you 'mistakingly' called people names... that was no mistake.

Women dont bash other women because of the bad luck they seem to have fallen into... women bash other women because they're jealous.

I'm a strong person and I dont care if people call me a b itch. You know what, if you think I've acted like a b itch to you, it's probably because you're an idiot - point blank.

Amen sista!

MrsInglima Posted: May 11, 2008 01:08 PM

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Posted by Summertimegal424

on and tell michelle im still waiting for an apology....

I'm not trying to defend anyone or anything, but I just want to point at that Michelle did attempt an apology (she started a new thread for). You can read it and decide on whether or not it's a good enough one, but it did happen.

dazies1011 Posted: May 11, 2008 02:59 PM

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Posted by IrishBrideASmiling

Im sorry if this comes out wrong or whatever, but all you girls who talked smack about people behind their backs, can you please keep the apologies to FMs or phone calls or whatever bc most of us do not know who said what about who on those boards and knew nothing about it. Obviously if you said something about someone its personal...lets keep it that way since everyone doesnt need to know or be reminded of the awful things that were said.

Even though you are apologizing and trying to do the right thing, its stirring up more trouble. For those of us who were not involved in any way and try to avoid the drama at all cost would like to go back to the way things should be...planning and helping each other with their weddings.

Again, sorry if this offends anyone but i felt like it had to be said.

I totally agree....FMs are a better way of doing it

MrsDrinkh20 Posted: May 11, 2008 04:22 PM

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Posted by IrishBrideASmiling

Im sorry if this comes out wrong or whatever, but all you girls who talked smack about people behind their backs, can you please keep the apologies to FMs or phone calls or whatever bc most of us do not know who said what about who on those boards and knew nothing about it. Obviously if you said something about someone its personal...lets keep it that way since everyone doesnt need to know or be reminded of the awful things that were said.

Even though you are apologizing and trying to do the right thing, its stirring up more trouble. For those of us who were not involved in any way and try to avoid the drama at all cost would like to go back to the way things should be...planning and helping each other with their weddings.

Again, sorry if this offends anyone but i felt like it had to be said.

I totally agree....FMs are a better way of doing it

I agree about the FMs...but i also think that there are a lot of girls who werent involved who were pretty upset about it too...since the shower involved everyone, i guess maybe thats why there are still posts about it?

Edit: Thanks for the apology Danielle...i think i was just hurt cause we had hung out and FMed a lot. So to read you making fun of me was kind of sad.

dazies1011 Posted: May 11, 2008 04:55 PM

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Posted by MrsDtoBe09

You know what... I have to say THIS...

there's a lot of girls dealing with bad s hit on this board - we have one amazingly strong woman who battled cancer - has she ever bashed or badmouthed a soul? NO! Everyone has problems in one way or another. That in no way excuses the juvenile behavior and disgusting name calling that you girls did. I believe you even said you 'mistakingly' called people names... that was no mistake.

Women dont bash other women because of the bad luck they seem to have fallen into... women bash other women because they're jealous.

I'm a strong person and I dont care if people call me a b itch. You know what, if you think I've acted like a b itch to you, it's probably because you're an idiot - point blank.

PoppedInASnap Posted: May 11, 2008 05:51 PM

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Posted by MrsDtoBe09

You know what... I have to say THIS...

there's a lot of girls dealing with bad s hit on this board - we have one amazingly strong woman who battled cancer - has she ever bashed or badmouthed a soul? NO! Everyone has problems in one way or another. That in no way excuses the juvenile behavior and disgusting name calling that you girls did. I believe you even said you 'mistakingly' called people names... that was no mistake.

Women dont bash other women because of the bad luck they seem to have fallen into... women bash other women because they're jealous.

I'm a strong person and I dont care if people call me a b itch. You know what, if you think I've acted like a b itch to you, it's probably because you're an idiot - point blank.

I LOVE YOU!

flairforfashion Posted: May 11, 2008 05:58 PM

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I honestly don't want to keep going on with this. But the only thing I want to say is that not everyone can be classified with all the name calling. There were plenty like myself and others who did not participate in all the bashing. As for the other girls, I feel bad they did that and it's terrible but hopefully we can all move on and stop posting about it. It's getting old. People have apologized and it seems like everyone has settled down. Lets hope that we can have a new week with a fresh start here on the boards! I can't wait to talk about planning again!