Can you believe FI noisy aunt had the NERVE to make a list back in Feb of people that we 'had' to invite to the engagement party ( I think she came up with 35 people) and people we had to have at the wedding. Well needless to say i totally ignored her list & invited who we wanted to invite, she made comments the whole time about this person and that person meanwhile they came 4 people to my eparty on Sunday with this Margarita set that was not on my registery, and it didn't go with my glasses so i returned it.. guess how much it was, (now i hope i dont sound like a b*tch that is complaing about the $, but this is someone who has made comments since Feb about what we have to do for our party) the gift was 19.99. 4 people came! I'm so annoyed, b/c she already started with the wedding, telling me i shouldn't go crazy with the flowers and all this other stuff...this woman annoys me so much!
Sorry so long i just had to vent
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Sorry to hear about the Aunt! I think everyone has someone like that.. People just dont know how to stay out of things
Im changing the topic a bit.. but Im getting married at flowerfields as well.. and speaking of flowers... with that room what are you doing high or low flowers?? I think im going with both...but that room is soo beautiful I dont want to over power it with flowers. Just thought I would ask.
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sorry...don't worry about your aunt ..this is your day and you should invite whoever YOU want...
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Vent as much as you'd like.
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Oh I know how you feel. FH's sister decided to make her 'table' and started listing people with guests. I nipped in the bud and said 'we aren't inviting people with guests.' She looked at me like I had two heads. As if her 18 year old cousin needs a date? Puh-lease. They need to mind their own business.
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Sorry to hear about the Aunt! I think everyone has someone like that.. People just dont know how to stay out of things
Im changing the topic a bit.. but Im getting married at flowerfields as well.. and speaking of flowers... with that room what are you doing high or low flowers?? I think im going with both...but that room is soo beautiful I dont want to over power it with flowers. Just thought I would ask.
You know i can't decide b/c i thought the same thing, I dont want to overpower the room b/c it doesnt need it......I was thinking a tall vase with just greens and calla lillies (sorry spelling is off) I think thats what i'm going towards....what about u?
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Remember it's YOUR DAY YOUR WAY!!!!!
You can't make everyone happy. As long as you and FH are happy. That is what matters!!!
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Oh I know how you feel. FH's sister decided to make her 'table' and started listing people with guests. I nipped in the bud and said 'we aren't inviting people with guests.' She looked at me like I had two heads. As if her 18 year old cousin needs a date? Puh-lease. They need to mind their own business.
Well i'm ready for her to open her mouth to me again, b/c it's not going to be nice! And i already made it clear to her that i'm not inviting first cousins who are between the ages of 20-22 on FI side with guests!
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Sorry to hear about the Aunt! I think everyone has someone like that.. People just dont know how to stay out of things
Im changing the topic a bit.. but Im getting married at flowerfields as well.. and speaking of flowers... with that room what are you doing high or low flowers?? I think im going with both...but that room is soo beautiful I dont want to over power it with flowers. Just thought I would ask.
You know i can't decide b/c i thought the same thing, I dont want to overpower the room b/c it doesnt need it......I was thinking a tall vase with just greens and calla lillies (sorry spelling is off) I think thats what i'm going towards....what about u?
No CLue yet.. Im not sure about flowers yet.. Im going to go with all the fall colors.. play off of the grounds and the season.. but i think im going to do low stands around the dance floor then high on all the other tables.. but nothing crazy..I was there last night showing my BMs and the center piece fell on my head .. I was trying to move it..it was hysterical. Carolyn was hysterical laughing at me. What color linens are u using? Im sticking with the white.. I love that place, I Cant wait. Are you doing the fireworks? We were going to.. but I dont know now.. I dont want to take away from the wedding. (time Im talking about)
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Sorry to hear about the Aunt! I think everyone has someone like that.. People just dont know how to stay out of things
Im changing the topic a bit.. but Im getting married at flowerfields as well.. and speaking of flowers... with that room what are you doing high or low flowers?? I think im going with both...but that room is soo beautiful I dont want to over power it with flowers. Just thought I would ask.
You know i can't decide b/c i thought the same thing, I dont want to overpower the room b/c it doesnt need it......I was thinking a tall vase with just greens and calla lillies (sorry spelling is off) I think thats what i'm going towards....what about u?
No CLue yet.. Im not sure about flowers yet.. Im going to go with all the fall colors.. play off of the grounds and the season.. but i think im going to do low stands around the dance floor then high on all the other tables.. but nothing crazy..I was there last night showing my BMs and the center piece fell on my head .. I was trying to move it..it was hysterical. Carolyn was hysterical laughing at me. What color linens are u using? Im sticking with the white.. I love that place, I Cant wait. Are you doing the fireworks? We were going to.. but I dont know now.. I dont want to take away from the wedding. (time Im talking about)
Wait, what centerpiece fell on your head? haha I hope you're ok! I am not doing the fireworks, i just dont want it to take away timewise also...you doing vienisse hour?
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Sorry to hear about the Aunt! I think everyone has someone like that.. People just dont know how to stay out of things
Im changing the topic a bit.. but Im getting married at flowerfields as well.. and speaking of flowers... with that room what are you doing high or low flowers?? I think im going with both...but that room is soo beautiful I dont want to over power it with flowers. Just thought I would ask.
You know i can't decide b/c i thought the same thing, I dont want to overpower the room b/c it doesnt need it......I was thinking a tall vase with just greens and calla lillies (sorry spelling is off) I think thats what i'm going towards....what about u?
No CLue yet.. Im not sure about flowers yet.. Im going to go with all the fall colors.. play off of the grounds and the season.. but i think im going to do low stands around the dance floor then high on all the other tables.. but nothing crazy..I was there last night showing my BMs and the center piece fell on my head .. I was trying to move it..it was hysterical. Carolyn was hysterical laughing at me. What color linens are u using? Im sticking with the white.. I love that place, I Cant wait. Are you doing the fireworks? We were going to.. but I dont know now.. I dont want to take away from the wedding. (time Im talking about)
Wait, what centerpiece fell on your head? haha I hope you're ok! I am not doing the fireworks, i just dont want it to take away timewise also...you doing vienisse hour?
They have centerpieces there but it was in the back so I moved it to another table (the one is was on had green linens) so i wanted it on the white linen table.. so i moved it and the flowers fell on my head and table.. my friends just watch in awww they said it was like slow motion.. I was fine just mortified. it was hysterical.. only me
No we are not doing the v hour we are doing the sampler platter.. (cake strawberry and something else) and I think we are going to do the chocolate fountain. How about you? are you upgrading the coctail hour? I think we are going to cause i was fish by the sea thing.. I have to work on the FH w that one though
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Sorry to hear about the Aunt! I think everyone has someone like that.. People just dont know how to stay out of things
Im changing the topic a bit.. but Im getting married at flowerfields as well.. and speaking of flowers... with that room what are you doing high or low flowers?? I think im going with both...but that room is soo beautiful I dont want to over power it with flowers. Just thought I would ask.
You know i can't decide b/c i thought the same thing, I dont want to overpower the room b/c it doesnt need it......I was thinking a tall vase with just greens and calla lillies (sorry spelling is off) I think thats what i'm going towards....what about u?
No CLue yet.. Im not sure about flowers yet.. Im going to go with all the fall colors.. play off of the grounds and the season.. but i think im going to do low stands around the dance floor then high on all the other tables.. but nothing crazy..I was there last night showing my BMs and the center piece fell on my head .. I was trying to move it..it was hysterical. Carolyn was hysterical laughing at me. What color linens are u using? Im sticking with the white.. I love that place, I Cant wait. Are you doing the fireworks? We were going to.. but I dont know now.. I dont want to take away from the wedding. (time Im talking about)
Wait, what centerpiece fell on your head? haha I hope you're ok! I am not doing the fireworks, i just dont want it to take away timewise also...you doing vienisse hour?
They have centerpieces there but it was in the back so I moved it to another table (the one is was on had green linens) so i wanted it on the white linen table.. so i moved it and the flowers fell on my head and table.. my friends just watch in awww they said it was like slow motion.. I was fine just mortified. it was hysterical.. only me
No we are not doing the v hour we are doing the sampler platter.. (cake strawberry and something else) and I think we are going to do the chocolate fountain. How about you? are you upgrading the coctail hour? I think we are going to cause i was fish by the sea thing.. I have to work on the FH w that one though
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I think every one's got at least one 'nosy aunt'!! Sorry that she's given you so much grief already!! I say 'my way or the highway'!!!!
july06bride
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i may have read this wrong, but why would your fh's aunt be able to invite anyone to the wedding?
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I hope everything works out the the aunt!
About FF and flowers I was thinking the same thing, I am thinking taller flowers but I have some time.
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i may have read this wrong, but why would your fh's aunt be able to invite anyone to the wedding?
she gave us a list of people she wanted for the engagement party and wedding...i dont know why haha we went to visit her and she wrote out a list, your guess is as good as mine, but guess where the list is...GARBAGE!
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I hope everything works out the the aunt!
About FF and flowers I was thinking the same thing, I am thinking taller flowers but I have some time.
yeah i'm going to have to see..i want to ask past ff brides maybe i'll post that later b/c i need soem ideas
Kris516
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Wow, that is annoying especially from a 'FAIL'.
kellwolfe
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Sorry honey ....its your day and things will work out i know that its hard just try not to let it get to you and do what you want
