I am not a bridezilla, I have not asked my BM to do anything. I have a small bridal party, my sister who is the MOH, my niece who is 14, and my oldest friend who lives in NC. Since my MOH is the closest to me being my sister. I asked her if she would go dress shopping for her dress today, I asked on Saturday. So this morning I said I thought we would go around 1130 or 12, and I was planning to take her to lunch. She says oh I still have my period, and I have to get my haircut, and so on and so on, we will go next week. I said I am working 5- 12 hour shifts next week for OT at work, I am in the process of moving FH into my apartment by April 1. So I am not sure if I am available next week. I am not asking for anything from anyone. I am doing everything on my own. I do not care what dress they wear, they can choose whatever they are comfortable in. I am just choosing the color. She is the one I have been talking to about how stressed I have been, how nervous I am about FH moving in because my apartment is in my parents house. My support system of friends at work is not the same because all our friendships have been falling apart for various reasons, mind you we were all very very close inside and out of work. This is just something small that angered me because my sister could not make it just a little easier on me. The wedding itself is not stressing me it is everything else. My life and friendships are changing so rapidly I feel like sometimes the only person I can turn to is FH and that is not a bad thing I love that I can do that. But it is not the same as a friend.
hayleyandsteve
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nmagel
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Don't worry. It will all happen. Maybe she felt embarrassed b/c of her period. BTW, my FSIL is also getting married @ the Watermill on 11/11/07 and using s/triart too! You have a date/location twin!
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I know how you feel about the outside stuff getting to you. It's like, ok everyone has their own priorities and by no means is my wedding a priority to anyone else, but sometimes you just want to yell - have a little consideration for the stressed out bride!!!!
But don't worry, it will all work out!
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Get used of it!!!! It is the little things like that, that are going to happen and drive you crazy. It seems to me like my wedding is a burden to everyone so I have stopped asking anyone to do anything. Most people are going to be pains, you just have to deal with it.
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Posted by AtlantisWedding
Get used of it!!!! It is the little things like that, that are going to happen and drive you crazy. It seems to me like my wedding is a burden to everyone so I have stopped asking anyone to do anything. Most people are going to be pains, you just have to deal with it.
I disagree (and I also think this came off a bit harsh. she was asking to vent and be comforted, not lectured) -- dont get used to it! Its YOUR wedding and your sister knows how stressed you are. She could have tried to make some time for you! I'm sorry your feeling down right now -- why dont you try talking to her and telling her how much it means to you that she come with you, but you need her to work with you a little more since you're so busy and stressed?
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i can totally appreciate how you feel sweetie. Maybe you should tell her how you are feeling and about the girls at work and that you just need her support. If she doesn't want to go dress shopping b/c of her period, then just explain to her that you can't go next week because of the OT at work and maybe you guys can work something else out. You do still have sometime for BM dresses. I would just talk to her and tell her how you feel. I'm sorry date twin that you are feeling down
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Aw I'm so sorry your not going to be able to go shopping. I hope you two are able to go soon. I get dissapointed too when something I want to happen doesn't because someone else doesn't follow thru. On the other hand I probably wouldn't want to go dress shopping on my period either. Sorry JMHO
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snydl40
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Not cool. I would just wait till the week after next, and not give it a second thought. Try not to let yourself stresss about it.
