I no longer have a bestfriend or MOH
Original post by LuckyMe
I truly don't know what happened but I didn't hear from her for months at a time and she works 10min from my house. She cuts me off when I call her at work, she doesn't answer her phone at home and disconnected her machine. I called her mothers phone about a week ago to tell her that my uncle died and I would be in the neighborhood so I was going to come by and she never returned my call. My kids are her godchildren and she never showed up to my sons first birthday party last week and left a message saying she would call the next day to explain and never did. She never sent them christmas cards like she's done for the past 12years. Never called on christmas. I dropped a gift off at her job and she never even called to say thank you to the kids. She did call me about 3 weeks ago to ask to borrow money because they were repoing her car and I told her no problem and then called her the next day to say I miscalculated and could only get her half and she called me back and said forget it she borrowed the whole thing from someone at work(which I can't imagine her doing). Im freaking out. I've tried talking to her in the past and get told I just don't call anyone anymore. Igoring my kids at the holidays made me realize that the friendship is over and she was just looking for a way out for some reason. I am so hurt and confused right now, I haven't slept since christmas!