I officially did something mean today....VENT, LONG

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Posted by prncssrachel

Ok, I didn't call JT's parents to wish them a Happy Thanksgiving. I know it's mean, but I do not want to talk to them, and by them, I mean his mother, the only one who ever gets on the phone over there, anyway. Some background info:

This past Saturday, JT's mother told him that she might come out to his sister's house on for dinner that Sunday, but that she would call him early in the day to let him know if they were going. So Sunday comes and starts to go and as we're about to sit down to dinner, the phone rings and it's JT's sister and she says, 'Mom and Dad are here. Aren't you coming over?' Then she hung up. So he was pissed because he assumed they never came out here since they never bothered to call him. So right before we're about to sit down to dinner, he puts his shoes on and gets his keys and is about to leave to go see his parents and I asked him where the hell he was going. Then he proceeded to say how much he hates his family and who do they think they are just calling him and expecting him to jump up. So I explained to him that he had the choice to either run out the door at their beck and call, or to not let them run his life. So I told him I was not abotu to run out the door, but that if he would wait until after dinner, I would go with him to see his parents. Fine, so we eat and go over.
As we're getting ready to leave, JT's mother turns to him and yells, 'FINE! Just leave! Hopefully I'll get to see you before Christmas!' All because he had to work from 5am-9pm for Thanksgiving and couldn't go to her house. So he said to her, 'Mom, you know I have to work, I don't have a choice.' So again, she yells at him, 'WELL DON'T LOSE ANY SLEEP OVER IT!' That's when I flipped my f-ing lid. I looked at her and told her she was being absolutely ridiculous and that she had no right to talk to him that way when he's working on Thanksgiving just so we have money for our wedding and a house. Then we left.
So PS- I'm not talking to her. I've had it with her. I hate her, I do not want a relationship with her and I think she's emotionally abusive to her son. So I didn't bother to call her today. I still feel bad that I didn't call, but I also am not about to talk to her. JT even said to me the other day that he wants to move off of Long Island to get away from his family because he hates them. GOD! I HATE THIS WOMAN! Anyway, I just had to vent. Thanks.

I am soo sorry that you and you Fh husband had to go through that! I think you have every right to not to talk to hear. I understand that she is his mother but come on already he is a grown man and he had to work she should at least understand that. they could at least have called ya's to let you know that she was coming out . I dont mean to sound me but does this woman think everything revolves around her . she should not make him feel bad. gl to you both and if you ever need to vent WE are here for you both.