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SoontobeMrs.Brown Posted:

I posted this in a response to another post BUT --

One of my BM's was a no show at my bridal shower .. No calls or anything to anyone. The next day was Mother's Day and she texted me saying 'Happy Mothers Day' (I have a dog) ..

I texted her back saying 'Yeah - We missed you yesterday' and she wrote back 'Im so sick' ... I didnt answer her ... Then she wrote 'Ive been coughing and feeling so sick, I'll make it up to you I hope everyone doesnt hate me'

WTH?!??! Im so sick... is that a fukcing joke? You'll make it up to me? Hows that? A bridal shower is a once in a lifetime thing ... and youre in the bridal party and live 15 minutes from where it was ..

I havent spoke to her since .. Not sure what to even say anymore .. Im so tired of selfish people showing their true colors ever since we got engaged.
sprinkle23 Posted:

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I know it's easier said than done, but just try and think that honestly at the end of the day it's just you and your future hubby. You don't need anybody else. Just enjoy the rest of your planning and she really should be the one reaching out to you. I really don't understand people some times.

You have a great couple of months coming up and then a wonderful marriage to look forward to ; )
soontobecruz Posted:

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I would give her the benefit of the doubt that she was truely sick but she should have called someone. I don't think she should have called you THAT DAY... but certainly the next she could have said I didn't want to ruin the surprise for you so I called (your mom, other BM, etc) and wanted to follow up with you today.

Weddings do make people's true colors show. It's sad but you just have to remember how you are treated when their time comes.
AwaitingAugust Posted:

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bleh, i'm sorry Carey ... it totally sukcs ...

if you feel like the friendship is gone forever, you should probably ask her to step down and out of the BP. if you feel like you're still close, you should contact her and have a 'chat' about what happened.
SoontobeMrs.Brown Posted:

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Posted by soontobecruz

I would give her the benefit of the doubt that she was truely sick but she should have called someone. I don't think she should have called you THAT DAY... but certainly the next she could have said I didn't want to ruin the surprise for you so I called (your mom, other BM, etc) and wanted to follow up with you today.

Weddings do make people's true colors show. It's sad but you just have to remember how you are treated when their time comes.



Thing is .. it wasnt a surprise! I knew about the shower, I just didnt know where it was.
BOO TO THIS GIRL!

I need new friends
AwaitingAugust Posted:

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Posted by SoontobeMrs.Brown
I need new friends


that's one of my fave things about LIW it's a great way to meet new people
SoontobeMrs.Brown Posted:

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Posted by AwaitingAugust

Posted by SoontobeMrs.Brown
I need new friends


that's one of my fave things about LIW it's a great way to meet new people


Definitely
GonnaBeeMrsG Posted:

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ppl make me sick.....true colors is right I have seen nothing but...

sprinkle23 Posted:

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And I realized lately how important family really, really is!


SoontobeMrs.Brown Posted:

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Posted by sprinkle23

And I realized lately how important family really, really is!





Not me .. one of the girls who backed out and treated me like garbage was my cousin!!! I was her MOH and she jus refused to get her measurements and after SIX months of me begging her she got mad at me for getting mad at her and backed out!

So guess who else was a no show at the shower ... HER MOTHER!!! Yep, my aunt .. a no show because her bithc daughter told her 'If you go to Careys shower, I'll never talk to you again'

So no call, no card nothing .. just another no show.

But - one less plate to pay for at our wedding.
joctorre Posted:

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Wow. What is WRONG with people???? I just don't get it.......

AwaitingAugust Posted:

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Posted by SoontobeMrs.Brown
But - one less plate to pay for at our wedding.


damn right!
sprinkle23 Posted:

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WOW!

I am so sorry!

OK - back to what I originally said, you and your future husband THATS IT..screw everyone else! Just picture the honeymoon!!!!
SoontobeMrs.Brown Posted:

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Posted by sprinkle23

WOW!

I am so sorry!

OK - back to what I originally said, you and your future husband THATS IT..screw everyone else! Just picture the honeymoon!!!!



Yep .. him and I were talking about it because after my shower, that night I was crying to him about everything and he said to me ..

You really find out who your true FRIEND are during this time..

I love him.
Ray8183 Posted:

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Posted by AwaitingAugust

Posted by SoontobeMrs.Brown
But - one less plate to pay for at our wedding.


damn right!
ITA. I am telling family, 'I totally understand if you can't because xxxxxx (their problems) so I won't be sending you an invite. Yes, I don't like my family and I can have people there I do like.
JBC12510 Posted:

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I'm sorry. People really do sck sometimes. I was so angry with a BM a few months ago that I was thinking about asking her to step down. I knew I could always find friends in the LIW ladies :)

bluj786 Posted:

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i have learned you can not rely on anyone for anything to do with wedding planning. my MOH isnt the best and whatever. it is what it is now. but i have really seen the true colors of people through this process.

tmcnair414 Posted:

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Sorry, that's horrible.

canmigs Posted:

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I'm so sorry you are dealing with this.
allornil Posted:

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that's honestly unacceptable.

I don't expect anything of anyone so they don't disappoint me. Thats sad isn't it?

anyway, maybe she'll find really guilty and give you a ton of cash! lol

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