I Promised Myself

I wasn't going to b*tch, moan and complain about missing RSVP's because after all, nobody EVER gets them all back by the date. However, I was OOT for a FULL week, and when I left there were 38 invitations unaccounted for, and I only got 7 RSVP's while I was away. (and one returned and totally destroyed invitation )

In the grand scheme of things I know the number outstanding isn't too bad . . . . but . . . . why is it that some of those that haven't come back are from people that have gotten married in the last TWO years???? Those women know full well what it is like to be waiting on RSVPs, so why oh why are they putting a fellow bride through this????

And why is it that half his BP hasn't sent in their RSVP????

And yes, the way the invitation was addressed means that your 6 year old was not invited to the reception, so now can you send back the darn RSVP???

And, I know you're in my BP, and I invited your parents, but yes dear it did put in me in an uncomfortable situation when you asked if your sister could also come to the wedding just because she will happen to be in New York that weekend.

Vent over.