I really can't take any more stress.....

blueyes678 Posted: Jun 15, 2006 11:12 AM

I really can't take any more stress.....

Hey girls... I'm starting to lose my mind. Not only is the wedding in 9 days, but it's predicted to rain, 4 out of the 8 girls (my bridal party) who swore were getting their hair and makeup done CANCELLED on me!!! (That's another whole story in itself.) FH's cousin is the best man and his wife is due ANYDAY now, we didn't make our minimum for the wedding and we have to pay full price for our vendors, I have so much to finish and 'conveniently' no one in my bridal party is around to help me AND I haven't even spoken to one of my bridesmaids in 4 months!!! Despite my 15 emails and half a dozen phone calls....I don't even know if she got her dress, her shoes - nothing!! I don't get it. If one more thing goes wrong, I'll be wearing white in 9 days but it won't be a dress.... it'll be a jacket - I'm going crazy. Thank you all so much for letting me vent....

nov06 Posted: Jun 15, 2006 11:16 AM

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Wow, I'd be stressed too! I'm so sorry this is happening to you. I think you need a drink!

CaseyVM214 Posted: Jun 15, 2006 11:18 AM

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It will be OK...try to relax and deligate...round up people to help you make phone calls and run erands. I cant imagine how much stress you are under. hang in there.

M&S Sept12006 Posted: Jun 15, 2006 11:20 AM

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I know you're freaking out but honestly dont...try to relax bc you KNOW you're going to have a wonderful day, you're going to make a beautiful bride AND all the people that love and care for you will be there to celebrate with you...and all those BMs that are not there to help you...$crew them...there will come a day when they'll need you and you'll be just as 'busy' as they are...just know that.

EJSD2006 Posted: Jun 15, 2006 11:37 AM

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holy crap, i thought i was stressed out! relax girl!!! all that matters is that you're going to marry the man of your dreams next weekend!

on your wedding day, all of this stuff that's bugging you now will seem so distant and small that it wont even matter....

wendy1220 Posted: Jun 15, 2006 11:40 AM

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oh man, I'm sorry you're so stressed. The person that said come your day all of this will not matter is right, try to just get through it and on your wedding day you'll be so happy you won't care about any of this. Hang in there...

conigs25 Posted: Jun 15, 2006 11:53 AM

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Dawn
Im so sorry everyone is making your last few days so hard. I wish I could help you.

As for the rain, there is nothing you can do except mentally prepare yourself to NOT let it bother you.
As for your Bms cancelling hair and m/u, well then have fun w/ the other 4 girls who are getting it done. It might be nicer anyway bc youll have less girls to 'cater' to.

Anyway, just try and not let it bother you. Be happy! Youll be married in 9 days!!!

KellyBride Posted: Jun 15, 2006 12:54 PM

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Ahh sweetie - I am so sorry that you are dealing with this unnecessary stress. Just remember the whole point of the day - you are marrying the love of your life! You are going to make a GORGEOUS bride - so who cares, if your BM don't have their hair & make-up done...All eyes will be on you!

kimbermiller Posted: Jun 15, 2006 12:58 PM

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Oh my goodness, hang in there! In 9 days, irregardless of the people around you who are causing you stress, who are making it tough, in 9 days you are going to be in

wedding bliss!! just keep that thought in your heart and head, and we can 'weather' anything.

patticakes Posted: Jun 15, 2006 01:19 PM

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OMG, you need to breath. I feel so bad for you and don't blame you one bit for feeling like this! I hope it gets better. Please try and focus on your beautiful wedding!

JazzyT Posted: Jun 15, 2006 01:32 PM

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R&J0806 Posted: Jun 15, 2006 01:33 PM

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i think you should go pamper yourself with a massage and facial. i'm sorry you're going thru this....

blueyes678 Posted: Jun 15, 2006 01:39 PM

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Posted by kimbermiller

Oh my goodness, hang in there! In 9 days, irregardless of the people around you who are causing you stress, who are making it tough, in 9 days you are going to be in

wedding bliss!! just keep that thought in your heart and head, and we can 'weather' anything.

Thanks - you are all so awesome!!!!