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I recieved a wedding invite

lisalisa27 Posted:

I recieved a wedding invite

for my cousin's wedding in OCT. at Jericho Terrace in the Skylight room. I can't wait I haven't been to a wedding in a year. I love weddings.

The invite was addressed to me right and where you reply his Fiance put 2 she gave me a number. Wow I guess you have to do what you have to do to make sure people don't bring just anyone. I thought it was a bit pushy though. I wonder if I could get away with doing that.
donegal419 Posted:

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interesting... you would think it would have been addressed to you and a GUEST, which woudl have implied two people.... but to fill it out, that's weird, what if you weren't bringing someone, you would just reply for 1...

lisalisa27 Posted:

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I totally agree well she knows I was bringing someone but I don't know if I would do that with the response. I don't know if that is proper.

donegal419 Posted:

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I wouldn't say it is proper.... the number of people your invited is implied on the inner envelope (Name and guest) or just one name. You fill in the number based on whether or not you were invited with a guest or are bringing an invited guest.

JazzyT Posted:

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I've seen it done...I went to a wedding once where my RSVP said 1 mind I've been with my FH for 8 yrs. you can't get mad I understan that people have to cut costs

chrissyandvin Posted:

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I have seen that done... I AM GOING TO ACTUAL NUMBER THE BACK OF MY RESPONSES.. to keep track!
I love jericho Terrace.. it's beautiful there!
olivia30 Posted:

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Most of the wedding I have been to recently have put the number in.

Pierre07 Posted:

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my fiance got an invitation like that and it was filled in with 1 guest and that meant that i was not invited, i thought that was rude, the least they could have done was put 2 down.

Cheryl826 Posted:

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I have heard stories that some people have filled in the # of people attending to be greater than the # of people invited.

BrideChrissy Posted:

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Yeah! They do a really beautiful wedding.

ant n tilde Posted:

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oooh you have to tell me how it is when you go - thats my room!
MJDoc12 Posted:

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Posted by lisalisa27

The invite was addressed to me right and where you reply his Fiance put 2 she gave me a number. Wow I guess you have to do what you have to do to make sure people don't bring just anyone. I thought it was a bit pushy though. I wonder if I could get away with doing that.



we did that on our RSVP's! LOL i didn't want anyone trying to bring their kids or cousins or something. (my family's ghetto)

so we have:

We have reserved ____ places in your honor

___ accepts with pleasure
___ declines with regret

i have a feeling no matter what--someone will scratch out the # we put in and try and add someone.
Hisforever Posted:

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please post a review of Jericho Terrace after you attend the wedding! I am a JT Bride for next October.

I am sure this will help other JT brides...

thanks:)
enjft Posted:

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Posted by MJDoc12


Posted by lisalisa27

The invite was addressed to me right and where you reply his Fiance put 2 she gave me a number. Wow I guess you have to do what you have to do to make sure people don't bring just anyone. I thought it was a bit pushy though. I wonder if I could get away with doing that.



we did that on our RSVP's! LOL i didn't want anyone trying to bring their kids or cousins or something. (my family's ghetto)

so we have:

We have reserved ____ places in your honor

___ accepts with pleasure
___ declines with regret

i have a feeling no matter what--someone will scratch out the # we put in and try and add someone.



I think I am wording mine like this as well!
LuckySevens Posted:

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Posted by enjft


Posted by MJDoc12


Posted by lisalisa27

The invite was addressed to me right and where you reply his Fiance put 2 she gave me a number. Wow I guess you have to do what you have to do to make sure people don't bring just anyone. I thought it was a bit pushy though. I wonder if I could get away with doing that.



we did that on our RSVP's! LOL i didn't want anyone trying to bring their kids or cousins or something. (my family's ghetto)

so we have:

We have reserved ____ places in your honor

___ accepts with pleasure
___ declines with regret

i have a feeling no matter what--someone will scratch out the # we put in and try and add someone.



I think I am wording mine like this as well!



Me too. We are on a budget and I am scared that people will either try to bring their children or a guest if I didn't invite them with one. Staying on a budget is so hard and some people don't understand that.
cherilicious16 Posted:

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Posted by LuckySevens


Posted by enjft


Posted by MJDoc12


Posted by lisalisa27

The invite was addressed to me right and where you reply his Fiance put 2 she gave me a number. Wow I guess you have to do what you have to do to make sure people don't bring just anyone. I thought it was a bit pushy though. I wonder if I could get away with doing that.



we did that on our RSVP's! LOL i didn't want anyone trying to bring their kids or cousins or something. (my family's ghetto)

so we have:

We have reserved ____ places in your honor

___ accepts with pleasure
___ declines with regret

i have a feeling no matter what--someone will scratch out the # we put in and try and add someone.



I think I am wording mine like this as well!



Me too. We are on a budget and I am scared that people will either try to bring their children or a guest if I didn't invite them with one. Staying on a budget is so hard and some people don't understand that.



Me three!!! I have already tried to casually spread the word....we will see what happens!!
lisalisa27 Posted:

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Posted by MJDoc12


Posted by lisalisa27

The invite was addressed to me right and where you reply his Fiance put 2 she gave me a number. Wow I guess you have to do what you have to do to make sure people don't bring just anyone. I thought it was a bit pushy though. I wonder if I could get away with doing that.



we did that on our RSVP's! LOL i didn't want anyone trying to bring their kids or cousins or something. (my family's ghetto)

so we have:

We have reserved ____ places in your honor

___ accepts with pleasure
___ declines with regret

i have a feeling no matter what--someone will scratch out the # we put in and try and add someone.


My family too. I may have to try this...Ummmm
lisalisa27 Posted:

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Posted by Hisforever

please post a review of Jericho Terrace after you attend the wedding! I am a JT Bride for next October.

I am sure this will help other JT brides...

thanks:)



I sure will
missgwife Posted:

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That's how I did my invites. I filled in the number of people to attend.

I also number the back of the response card along with the copy of the labels so that when someone mail their invite back and forget to write their name on the response card, I'll know who it is.

Two people mail their response back without writing their name and my system worked.
lisalisa27 Posted:

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Posted by missgwife

That's how I did my invites. I filled in the number of people to attend.

I also number the back of the response card along with the copy of the labels so that when someone mail their invite back and forget to write their name on the response card, I'll know who it is.

Two people mail their response back without writing their name and my system worked.



Good idea I need to try that..

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