..... but i'm disappointed instead...... i paid the materials fee for my invitations and felt excited for a minute but now i feel like i rushed into something i wasn't completely happy with.... i should have looked around more and seen what other options were out there.... instead i got so caught up in designing my invitations with the lady and not missing the bump up date to pay for materials that i didn't take the time to realize i didn't even really like them... too late now!
little j
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you dont liek them? or you do?
if you dont...cancel the check and tell her sorry
if you do but are just uncertain, dont worry
trust me, finding invites is a pain....and i think everyone will always second guess themselves. so if you like it, just have a drink and relax!
GiannisWifey
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from what I remember, your invites were beautiful!!! invites keeep me up at night so what I did was literally step away from them for a while...i got so wrapped up and confused that i needed to stop thinking about them for a few weeks......
maybe tell her to hold off on your order if you aren't 100% certain???
AdriandSteve
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I agree. Tell her how you feel. I'm sure there is something she can do. If she makes you another mockup that you love either a. it'll be the same price or b. she can just put the $ towards the one you do like the best!
Lsorrent
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I agree.....definitely tell her before she starts working on them.
Maria5117
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I know... but i made the payment through paypal using my debit card and it already posted to our account and it says 'materials ordered' by my name on the list...
plus FH is gonna kill me if i keep changing things and losing money.... i already bought two wedding gowns and lost my deposit on the first one.... i changed last minute from a DJ to a band and almost lost that deposit... and I recently bought a TK headpiece even though a headpiece was included in the cost of my second gown... so i guess i'm just indecisive... maybe it's not the invitations
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Posted by Maria5117
I know... but i made the payment through paypal using my debit card and it already posted to our account and it says 'materials ordered' by my name on the list...
plus FH is gonna kill me if i keep changing things and losing money.... i already bought two wedding gowns and lost my deposit on the first one.... i changed last minute from a DJ to a band and almost lost that deposit... and I recently bought a TK headpiece even though a headpiece was included in the cost of my second gown... so i guess i'm just indecisive... maybe it's not the invitations
obvioulsy you are continuing the trend of changing your mind after you make the commitment... how much was this deposit?
I think your FH will def kill you... lol
Maria5117
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Posted by AngnShaun
Posted by Maria5117
I know... but i made the payment through paypal using my debit card and it already posted to our account and it says 'materials ordered' by my name on the list...
plus FH is gonna kill me if i keep changing things and losing money.... i already bought two wedding gowns and lost my deposit on the first one.... i changed last minute from a DJ to a band and almost lost that deposit... and I recently bought a TK headpiece even though a headpiece was included in the cost of my second gown... so i guess i'm just indecisive... maybe it's not the invitations
obvioulsy you are continuing the trend of changing your mind after you make the commitment... how much was this deposit?
I think your FH will def kill you... lol
LOL I know.... i paid almost $500 for materials.... so i'm stuck with them.....
AngnShaun
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Posted by Maria5117
Posted by AngnShaun
Posted by Maria5117
I know... but i made the payment through paypal using my debit card and it already posted to our account and it says 'materials ordered' by my name on the list...
plus FH is gonna kill me if i keep changing things and losing money.... i already bought two wedding gowns and lost my deposit on the first one.... i changed last minute from a DJ to a band and almost lost that deposit... and I recently bought a TK headpiece even though a headpiece was included in the cost of my second gown... so i guess i'm just indecisive... maybe it's not the invitations
obvioulsy you are continuing the trend of changing your mind after you make the commitment... how much was this deposit?
I think your FH will def kill you... lol
LOL I know.... i paid almost $500 for materials.... so i'm stuck with them.....
how about you let us make your decisions so you cant have an attack of did i make the right decision! LOL
Maria5117
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Posted by AngnShaun
Posted by Maria5117
Posted by AngnShaun
Posted by Maria5117
I know... but i made the payment through paypal using my debit card and it already posted to our account and it says 'materials ordered' by my name on the list...
plus FH is gonna kill me if i keep changing things and losing money.... i already bought two wedding gowns and lost my deposit on the first one.... i changed last minute from a DJ to a band and almost lost that deposit... and I recently bought a TK headpiece even though a headpiece was included in the cost of my second gown... so i guess i'm just indecisive... maybe it's not the invitations
obvioulsy you are continuing the trend of changing your mind after you make the commitment... how much was this deposit?
I think your FH will def kill you... lol
LOL I know.... i paid almost $500 for materials.... so i'm stuck with them.....
how about you let us make your decisions so you cant have an attack of did i make the right decision! LOL
OK... the next decision is in your hands I'll let you know when it's time
Oh ... and my BM dresses are in and i'm scared to go see them.... it took me months to finally pick them out and my BMs were ready to kill me or drop out of the bridal party....and i still wasn't 100% sure in the end.... this will be my first time seeing them in my color
