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I think I did something bad....

lauren721 Posted:

I think I did something bad....

There is this girl who I used to be really good friends with, but as the years have gone by, we have become more and more distant towards each other. She got married this summer, and I went to the wedding. After she got back from her honeymoon, we went to the beach together, and made plans to get together the following Friday night, but I never heard from her and could not get in touch with her, so I was pretty mad because this had happened numerous times in the past and I was fed up. We hadn't talked until two days ago when I emailed her, telling her why I hadn't called her and how upset I was about our soon to be nonexistant friendship. She replied that she was mad because she heard that I had negatively critiqued her wedding and she was really hurt that I wouldsay bad things about her day. However, I honestly never remember saying ANYTHING about her wedding except that the church was hot, which has no reflection on her. I really don't remember saying anything, but if I did when I was out of sorts I feel like a complete *******! I would be really upset if I found out that anyone had anything bad to say about my wedding, but this is osmething I would not do ... I don't know, I just needed to vent about this situation
Mrs. Powell Posted:

Re: I think I did something bad....

Honestly, try to meet up with her and talk about the matter. I think it is worth talking about to clear up all the misunderstandings. I really do not feel you guys should discussed the matter via e-mail or telephone but rather have a face to face discusion. I hope you guys can resolve the matter.

MrsH1156 Posted:

Re: I think I did something bad....

Well if she was so upset, I think she should have been an adult and spoken to you about it without you having to chase her down. Having said that, if you feel you maybe did say something, just talk to her about hit and clear the air. Especially if you want her in our life in the future, better to do it now. JMHO.

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