I think I DON'T want my Dad there!

He is SUCH a dissapointment in everything that I ask him to do. I got engaged in February and he has NEVER once offered to pay for ANYTHING. He has this notion that he is going to walk me down the aisle and as time passes by I think NOT. My aunt who is helping ME find my church with an inside hook up, went to Trinidad to visit her mom for her birthday. Her mom got sick and she ended up staying down there indefinitely. atleast until her moms test results come back. My dad is going to Trinidad ( which is where we are from )in the morning. I asked him to take my aunts mail to her, just the important stuff. His reply is that he couldn't because he didn;t think that he had the space. IT IS ONLY MAIL !!!!!!Give me a F&*@ing break. I SOOO fed up of him always letting me down. I think that I am going to just mail them down to her she needs her bills and she doesn't know when she is coming back.Not to mention I have to wait until she gets a chance to help me. I don't want to be insensitive.