I think I just cursed myself

tara08 Posted: Jan 31, 2007 11:22 PM

I think I just cursed myself

So I just wrote that you guys listen to my fmil rants...
I was just gonna sign offline and go to bed when fh's phone rings... his mother says what are you up too and he says.. we just got back from a wedding showcase at larkfield manor.. she literally started crying and screaming.. she asked to talk to me... fh said no.. she screamed.. (i heard her across the room) 'tell her shes pulling the family i worked so hard for apart'
and on that note goodnight ladies.

MikeandJess Posted: Jan 31, 2007 11:25 PM

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you taking him to a showcase means your ripping the family apart? What does your FH think of her temper tantrums?

beachbum05 Posted: Jan 31, 2007 11:25 PM

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WHAT!?!??!?! Oh MAN! I'm SO sorry! That's absurd! You guys can't do anything on your own!??!

oh man......

nifheim Posted: Jan 31, 2007 11:26 PM

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WOW is she a drinker or horribly depressed???? Because if anyone i mean anyone ever said that to me that would be it. I mean if fh's parents were alive and his mom said that fh would tell her to f-off and i know that for a fact. NO one should say those things. You deserve more respect then that.

JoeJo Posted: Jan 31, 2007 11:27 PM

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BOOO...wat is that all about!!

tara08 Posted: Jan 31, 2007 11:29 PM

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FH said mom you have to respect what i want... (forgot to add.. im tearing her family apart because he moved from la to ny to be with me and marrying me means hes staying here instead of going back to la.. which is what she wants) she said I cant so he said dont call back until you can and hung up the phone... i feel more bad for him.. shes nuts.

tara08 Posted: Jan 31, 2007 11:29 PM

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Posted by nifheim

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WOW is she a drinker or horribly depressed???? Because if anyone i mean anyone ever said that to me that would be it. I mean if fh's parents were alive and his mom said that fh would tell her to f-off and i know that for a fact. NO one should say those things. You deserve more respect then that.

ps.. i think terribly, horribly, depressed.

ShanonandSteve Posted: Jan 31, 2007 11:35 PM

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dancinmyazoff Posted: Jan 31, 2007 11:45 PM

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Oooh my goodness...we should all send happiness thoughts her way (wow mega cheezy ) but apparantly she needs it! That's horrible that your FMIL is like that, is there any way you guys can sit down and talk. Does she want to be included in on every aspect is that how you're tearing the family apart

Word of advice: Watch Monster-In-Law and do whatever J.Lo did because it worked, I think it had something to do with hitting her over the head with a frying pan

Kimbalina Posted: Jan 31, 2007 11:58 PM

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What a biotch!!!! i am sooo sorry!

tdebe Posted: Feb 01, 2007 08:13 AM

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At least your FH is soo supportive. No matter how crazy she is, you need your FH by your side or else things would be a million times worse.

cherish83 Posted: Feb 01, 2007 08:36 AM

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Oh my goodness!!! How are you pulling the family apart?? All you FH said was that you were going to a bridal showcase... Good luck with her man!!!

Kimbalina Posted: Feb 01, 2007 08:39 AM

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Posted by tdebe

At least your FH is soo supportive. No matter how crazy she is, you need your FH by your side or else things would be a million times worse.

I agree!! Good thing he knows where YOU are coming from.

Autumn08 Posted: Feb 01, 2007 08:48 AM

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I think she is in need of some psychiatric help. I'm not kidding. She can't possibly be happy with life always being this upset. It's not healthy for her or for the family.

blu6385 Posted: Feb 01, 2007 08:55 AM

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wow i thought i had it bad!!!

Fall Bride 2008 Posted: Feb 01, 2007 10:08 AM

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WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am so sorry you have to deal with that crap!!!!!!! Thank god your FH is strong and wont let her get in the way. Good Luck My Dear ...it sounds like you are going to need it

SoontobeMrsH Posted: Feb 01, 2007 10:41 AM

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so sorry your going through this

Belongs2DanBuckley Posted: Feb 01, 2007 10:47 AM

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JESUS!!! WHAT A FRIGGIN MANIAC!!!

U need to tell her that you guys are starting your own family and she can either choose to be part of it or she can be excluded..either way its her choice...

truelove5803 Posted: Feb 01, 2007 11:14 AM

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Awww honey I'm so sorry, no one should ever get treated like that. I really don't have much advice foryou except to just not take it to heart. The issue shoulds like she is having a hard time dealing with her son leaving. You just have to not take it personally and ride it out. Eventually it will get better. But for now all you need is to just your FH and get a lot of from us!