Want to start having children earlier then I thought. I told FH that I would like to wait at least a year before having children. SO we kind agreed on that. But lately, I have been feeling like I might want to have children like in 6 months or earlier. :bab It might be b/c my FSIL (BM) is Prego and due any day now. Due Date is 3/5. But I don't know.
Jennifer907
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I can't really help because I want babies soooooo bad! I keep reminding myself that we need a house first. FH and I sit here all the time and we're like at some point we won't be able to do this by ourselves, or no more peace and quiet when we get home or no more going here or buying this. It's a little reminder that once we have babies 'our' time is no longer and we should really enjoy our time together before we have a baby and our life is all about doing for the baby. It might sound selfish, but it's really not intended that way.
ruzi777
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I know exactly what you men. We do the same thing. We talk about how we would not be able to do this and pick up & run out rreal quick. Or plan an oernight get away. I know, I know
Jennifer907
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It's a tough battle to have with yourself, but everyone who I know is married with kids says to wait to have kids. I figure there must be a reason for everyone to say wait and no one to be like 'yeah, have kids now. It's great and yada yada!' I mean, no one regrets having their kids, but you don't see anyone rushing you usually. Everyone says wait so you can enjoy married life. Which is important. I really want to go to Italy, and if I don't do that before kids, I won't be able to until they're all grown up. Blahhh.
