I think I wanna elope...

HELP! I am losing control of this wedding!!!!

oh sweetie... whats wrong, whats making you so stressed out...besides everything...explain maybe we can help!

Awwww....What's wrong? Vent to us it will make you feel better.
Take a deep breath and relax!

We are all here for you Hun.

drink wine.. lots of wine...

Thats what Im doing right now and everything is alllll better.

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Posted by conigs25

If you elope, can i come??? HAHA

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Sure you can!

I know the feeling.........stay strong!

Hun, try to relax.. I know everyone says that but as you will see some days are better than others..

I myself have thought once or twice (like 5 times actually) about giving up my dreams and just eloping, but I would rather have my special day with all it's wonderful memories than a quickie wedding.

Planning a wedding is one of the most stressful times in our lives, trying to make everyone happy, worrying about how much everything costs, worrying about things going perfectly.. it's overwhelming we are all here with you.. you can always b!tch, scream and cry on our shoulders..

Thanks everyone! I am more calm now, but still a little down. Thanks for all the help gals. I think everyone goes through these times, I just don't want to be whiney. If I get annoying, let me know.

(allinmatt06 & july06bride... )

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Posted by Jen2999

drink wine.. lots of wine...

Thats what Im doing right now and everything is alllll better.

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Thats what we do on Friday nights.. we lock ourselves away in FH's room and watch movies, look for inexpensive trips to go on this summer and down a bottle! Makes everything allllll better alright!

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Posted by FutureMrsH

Thanks everyone! I am more calm now, but still a little down. Thanks for all the help gals. I think everyone goes through these times, I just don't want to be whiney. If I get annoying, let me know.

(allinmatt06 & july06bride... )

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You're not being whiney silly! Planning a wedding is one of the most stressful events in life -- we're all with you!!

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Posted by FutureMrsH

Thanks everyone! I am more calm now, but still a little down. Thanks for all the help gals. I think everyone goes through these times, I just don't want to be whiney. If I get annoying, let me know.

(allinmatt06 & july06bride... )

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You are far from whiney missy! This wedding planning has gotten the best of me, because people outside of the marriage have to open their mouth and voice unwanted opinions! (sorry, now i'm venting... ok, I'm ok now )

This is the perfect place to vent about things like that. So very many of us are in shoes just like yours...The best thing I can say is to keep strong and go with your gut on the planning. Do what YOU two want, not what the rest of the fam or world wants. It's about the two of you, or atleast it is supposed to be. Otherwise, why is everyone getting together on that day for?!

Oh honey it will be Ok take a deep breath!