i think Im going to live vicariously

...through you guys for a little longer.

Tonight has been hell. I have no idea whats up with anthony or why he's acting like the devil to me but 8 years or not, theres no way I'm risking all that $ when I feel this desolate.

S u c ks but I cant even understand whys hes being like this...even if he is nuts.

Worst night ever.

Im not leaving or anything. Im still going to chime in on everything. I love you guys. Im just dumbstruck at whats going on.

AWW I am sorry he is being **** a jerk to you. Hopefully it will all blow over soon and everything will be fine. Maybe he stressed about something!


again!!

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Posted by Im getting Married

Sorry to hear this..maybe you guys need a few days away from each other..or just the two of you

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Well we live together so thats out and hes acting like he wants me to theow myself in front of a bus right now so def not together.

Its bizarre. He went out w coworkers to fridays after work. Totally missed his chiro appt bc he was having a good time. Didnt care. Then didnt pick me up until 8 when i get out at 5:30. And thats bc i demanded not to be stranded 40 miles from home.

He was screaming about our other car not starting and having to be with me all the time. Fyi hes up my *** 24/7.

Mind you he was on antidepressants which i know he ran out of but still. He said evil things to me and i didnt do anything at all. I mean i have no idea who he is right now and he took off and wont answer his phone.

Sigh

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Posted by allornil

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Posted by Im getting Married

Sorry to hear this..maybe you guys need a few days away from each other..or just the two of you

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Well we live together so thats out and hes acting like he wants me to theow myself in front of a bus right now so def not together.

Its bizarre. He went out w coworkers to fridays after work. Totally missed his chiro appt bc he was having a good time. Didnt care. Then didnt pick me up until 8 when i get out at 5:30. And thats bc i demanded not to be stranded 40 miles from home.

He was screaming about our other car not starting and having to be with me all the time. Fyi hes up my *** 24/7.

Mind you he was on antidepressants which i know he ran out of but still. He said evil things to me and i didnt do anything at all. I mean i have no idea who he is right now and he took off and wont answer his phone.

Sigh

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Unfortunately men can be totally suc ky sometimes. Maybe he needs to be alone for a bit as much as he is wrong men do not always see things clearly.

I'm sure he will come around...but until he does

I'm really sorry you have to deal with this right now.

Maybe he should get his meds looked into.

When you start taking those kind of medications they change your chemical balances... when you go off them, you don't just go back to the way you were before you were on them... your chemical makeup is now different.

there is a good chance that may have a lot to do with it.

Until he gets that worked out.. think of it like he's being a raging ***** on his period. (I always say evil things that I regret when I'm pmsing and angry bc of my hormonal imbalance.)

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Posted by JessNicole7EM

I'm really sorry you have to deal with this right now.

Maybe he should get his meds looked into.

When you start taking those kind of medications they change your chemical balances... when you go off them, you don't just go back to the way you were before you were on them... your chemical makeup is now different.

there is a good chance that may have a lot to do with it.

Until he gets that worked out.. think of it like he's being a raging ***** on his period. (I always say evil things that I regret when I'm pmsing and angry bc of my hormonal imbalance.)

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This is so true...antidepressants are a drug that you have to slowly wean yourself off of...to just stop them abruptly can really affect many things. If he calms down enough to the point where you can talk to him, you need to tell him how his actions made you feel and how you love him, but you can't continue on if this is how he is going to be treating you...that you'd feel a lot better if he'd re-examine his medication situation and consider an adjustment or just going back on them. I'm not sure why he went off of them, but I know that the side effects sometimes ****...I'm on Prozac and its definitely effects a lot of things...I know how easy it is to think 'Well I feel good and these side effects s*ck so I'll just stop' but I'm a rehab/mental health counseling grad student so I know its no good to do that.

I'm sorry you're going through this...if you want to talk, feel free to FM me

Sorry to hear! Please think positive and like you said dont do anything you will regret, 8 years is nothing compared to the rest of your life. You have to be happy

I so sorry to hear this, maybe it's just a side effect of getting off the medication so quickly. I hope you two can talk things out soon.

I am so sorry you have to go through this... I hope things will work out between you two.

Aww I'm sorry Amy! Hopefully like the girls said, it's the meds if this is completely unlike him. I would give him his space until he comes to his senses and apologizes. WHen he does, just talk things out. NOt just about this incident but anything else he might be feeling. He might be frustrated about not booking a place, work problems, etc.

It's good to just vent to each other sometimes.

HOpe you guys talk it out~

Thanks everyone. Today hes very sorry but im hurt and not ready to get over it. Hes trying too hard helping me ice for my shot etc but i wish he'd go out and leave me alone. I actually was going to the maggie trunk show but today isnt good anymore. I want to be excited. He wants to take me desperately. I may go just go and buy paint for my front door. The work will be good for me. And hes going on and on abour how hes going to buy his 'princess' her dream dress...meaning the pronovias. Feels like a bribe.

Let me tell you, chemical imbalances are no joke. I keep waiting for the tide to change again.

I'm so sorry Amy, this is just a small bump in the road and by next week, you'll have forgotten all about it and be in love again!!!

You should still go to the Maggie show...it'll take your mind off of everything once you see yourself in that gorgeous dress!!!

Chin up!! We're here for you!

Im so sorry to hear this..Everything will work out don't worry - ups and downs but it will all work ou for you guys .

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Posted by allornil

Thanks everyone. Today hes very sorry but im hurt and not ready to get over it. Hes trying too hard helping me ice for my shot etc but i wish he'd go out and leave me alone. I actually was going to the maggie trunk show but today isnt good anymore. I want to be excited. He wants to take me desperately. I may go just go and buy paint for my front door. The work will be good for me. And hes going on and on abour how hes going to buy his 'princess' her dream dress...meaning the pronovias. Feels like a bribe.

Let me tell you, chemical imbalances are no joke. I keep waiting for the tide to change again.

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I'm sorry you're going through this but being left alone won't help. The two of you should really try to work things out... Maybe going for a walk around the block or just sitting somewhere outside in the fresh air so you have a change of environment will help. Every couple goes through a little hardship but it's how you come out of it in the end that'll really show you how much you two are meant to be together. Sorry for getting sappy and being a hopeless romantic but I really feel like you have to embrace the good as well as the bad. If you don't experience one how can you appreciate the other? Write yourself a list of every little thing that you love about him and make a collection of happy memories. Leave it somewhere he can find and just let him think about it for a while... it'll help

Let us know how it goes, you can always vent to us

I am sorry amy. It was must be so difficult not knowing how his mood is going to swing. Hopefully once he figures out his medication things will be better, not that I think he should get a free pass because of his issues. I hope your day is getting better

OMG, so sorry!! It does sound like a medication issue. You really can't just stop taking those things. Certain types can't be stopped suddenly without serious effects!! Really scary stuff, not feel good candy!
Maybe try talking to him, let him know how he is making you feel and ask him what is behind his behavior. It really sounds like something is going on inside of him that probably has nothing to do with you, but you're the one there all the time so you get to be the the target.
I hope things get better for you two if they haven't already!

ok so...update...he's going back to the dr tonight and the dr is gonna yell at him! lol. i know this bc he's my dr too and we discussed it.

plus he's going to switch the meds up a bit. he thinks maybe if he's going to screw up and stop taking them he should be on a diff one.