I think i'm losing my mind....updated

bkbaby4life Posted: Sep 29, 2008 09:25 AM

I think i'm losing my mind....updated

I think all this wedding stuff is becoming detrimental to my life. all i think about is the wedding and i think its affecting my normal daily functions. like...........

1) i kept the stove on when i went to walk my dog.
2) when i went to move the car for streat cleaning i left the passenger side window open....and got woken up by cops at 4am cuz someone rumaged through my car...they stole my ezpass :(
3) i LOST my house keys SOMEWHERE. now i have to replace two locks, make new keys, and bring a copy to the post office.

this all in the last few weeks. NOT OK.

UPDATE:
so i went to home depot after work and picked up two locks to change. one i replaced on my main door which was pretty easy and the other for the security gate in front of it.

well the one on the security gate was like some crazy chinese puzzle.....and after 45 minutes of f*cking with it....it GOT STUCK!. now...i live on the ground floor in Jersey City. its a real nice neighborhood but theres still some trouble spots. soOOOoooo....we had to call a lock smith. $267 later.....i had a working lock on my security gate. $267!!!! he was there for 15 MINUTES!
AND the lock he replaced looked exactly liek the one from home depot. WHICH WAS $16.27

***!?!?!

ok. thank you for listening. now i am broke for the next few days.

JenBill61210 Posted: Sep 29, 2008 09:28 AM

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Posted by bkbaby4life

I think all this wedding stuff is becoming detrimental to my life. all i think about is the wedding and i think its affecting my normal daily functions. like...........

1) i kept the stove on when i went to walk my dog.
2) when i went to move the car for streat cleaning i left the passenger side window open....and got woken up by cops at 4am cuz someone rumaged through my car...they stole my ezpass :(
3) i LOST my house keys SOMEWHERE. now i have to replace two locks, make new keys, and bring a copy to the post office.

this all in the last few weeks. NOT OK.

awww! i am so sorry this happened to you. It could have been worse though (esp w/ the stove!) so thank goodness nothing disasterous happened.

hugs for you!

i hope your week gets better. If you feel the wedding planning is too much for you at this time then def take a break and relax!

JoanneAndJustin Posted: Sep 29, 2008 09:39 AM

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Wow, I'm so sorry that happened!!!

When I feel myself forgetting routine items because of the wedding planning I just started to make notes and lists. Last month my mom and I had a big argument because she was asking what time my cousin's 50th birthday started (6 PM) and I thought that she was talking about my wedding! (OF COURSE!) so I kept telling her '8 PM is when the reception starts!' When she finally realized what I was talking about we had a good laugh.

FallBride2010 Posted: Sep 29, 2008 10:29 AM

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you have too much on your mind! maybe take a break for a week or so and dont focus on anything wedding related to clear your head

T E R I Posted: Sep 29, 2008 10:31 AM

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Posted by traci506

you have too much on your mind! maybe take a break for a week or so and dont focus on anything wedding related to clear your head

definitely agree, take a little bit of a break and clear your head

big hugs for you also , hopefully this week is better

grrulz Posted: Sep 29, 2008 10:35 AM

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be careful next time sweetie!! i know wedding planning could be a bit overwhelming

RedsBride Posted: Sep 29, 2008 11:22 AM

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Oh wow, that's scary. I'm so sorry. My car got broken into once at work cuz we park on the residential streets in the middle of East Flatbush.

Goldie39 Posted: Sep 29, 2008 11:57 AM

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oh wow

It must be a lot of things that you're trying to sort out. One of the best things that I find that works for me is just writing every little detail and thought down. Once something is on paper, it finally becomes a little bit more real to me. Once things start falling into place I am sure you will be feeling better.