I THINK IM MOVING AWAY FOR COUPLE DAYS .....FROM Fh---UPDATE-----

Original post by aliska21

May 19, 2008 09:51 AM

i dunno what to do...we have been fighting all week...for stupid things....and yesterday we actually sat down to talk about the relationship and everything else and it got worse....and it got to the point that i told him ..iu dont want to marry you anymore....
i was soo upset...i was crying ....and he didnt even apologize or anyting...
So i really want to get out of our apartment..and im going to stay with my parents for a while...
im so tired....of everything..i mean i do soooo much for him and his family...... i just want him to understand that he can either change his attitude or im gona have to say good bye to him....
i dont want to get married and be unhappy ......

sO WE TALKED AND CRIED..HEHEHE..AND NOW EVERYTHING IS FINE!!!!! HE REALLY DID REALIZE EVERYTHING AND I REALIZED MANY THINGS AS WELL!!!!!
I LOVE HIM SOOO MUCH!!!
THANK YOU GIRLIES FOR ALL YOUR ADVICE!!!!!!!! YOU ARE THE BEST!!!

lanamanitta Posted: May 19, 2008 04:29 PM

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Sometimes a break is good, and it's always good to be sure about marriage . . . . so take the time to think if you need it. You deserve to be happy, today, tomorrow and forever . . . . Do what is right for you in your heart.

Fall BZ 2009 Posted: May 19, 2008 05:02 PM

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Hope things work out between the 2 of you

fabulousmady Posted: May 19, 2008 05:27 PM

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hope things work out. sometimes a little time apart can make a big difference

CNC4eva3402 Posted: May 19, 2008 06:14 PM

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I am so sorry you have to go through this. I think its so smart of you to take some time away from him and think things through for yourself. I hope everything works out for the best!

VickiR510 Posted: May 19, 2008 07:05 PM

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First i want to say sorrythat things are a little hard. But its good that you sat down and spoke. It stinks that it got out of hand though. So maybe takign a break from the area & situation is good. For you both to think about what u need & what u want. Good luck i hope all turns out for the best!

mcbride62009 Posted: May 19, 2008 08:36 PM

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I am sorry to hear that. I hope it all works out!

Lisa218 Posted: May 19, 2008 08:42 PM

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Planning a wedding can be super stressful. Sometimes you just need to take a breather from everything and take some time to yourself. Maybe go to a spa or somewhere relaxing so you can take your mind off things for a couple of days. So sorry to hear that! Hope all goes well.

oldfriendoflive Posted: May 19, 2008 08:49 PM

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I am sorry. Maybe it is good that you left for a littel while because he will realize that you are for real. He will miss you and things will work out. I really hope you guys can work things out. Good luck. It is normal to go through a rocky phaze it makes your relationship stronger.

WinterGrl09 Posted: May 19, 2008 09:18 PM

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I'm sorry to hear that. Sometimes a little away time is good. Absence does make the heart grow fonder. So hopefully you guys will cool down and be stronger because of this.

aliska21 Posted: May 19, 2008 09:20 PM

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right now im still home and he seems not to give a ****..he is acting like nohing hapen...
but im going tom....!

kgicrls Posted: May 19, 2008 10:25 PM

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I hope everything works out ok...

shalice Posted: May 19, 2008 10:59 PM

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Follow your heart, girlfriend. Love yourself first & foremost, and follow your heart.

ange1x Posted: May 19, 2008 11:02 PM

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awwww.... so sorry to hear that... some space to think definitely sounds good. Hope everything works out.

vicky1125 Posted: May 19, 2008 11:05 PM

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i'm so sorry. we went through that recently cause of his family almost distroying our wedding. i'm sure things will blow over. maybe you two just need a lil space.

so_in_love630 Posted: May 19, 2008 11:46 PM

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SOMETIMES A BREAK IS ALL YOU NEED TO REALIZE HOW MUCH YOU REALLY NEED THAT PERSON IN UR LIFE.

JnA823 Posted: May 20, 2008 12:41 AM

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Awwww I'm so sorry you are going through this. I think when you spend time with one person fights are bound to happen. Me and FH have the stupidest fights sometimes and just taking time to myself to cool off and just get away usually helps. I'm sure everything will work out.