I THINK IM MOVING AWAY FOR COUPLE DAYS .....FROM Fh---UPDATE-----

aliska21 Posted: May 19, 2008 09:51 AM

I THINK IM MOVING AWAY FOR COUPLE DAYS .....FROM Fh---UPDATE-----

i dunno what to do...we have been fighting all week...for stupid things....and yesterday we actually sat down to talk about the relationship and everything else and it got worse....and it got to the point that i told him ..iu dont want to marry you anymore....
i was soo upset...i was crying ....and he didnt even apologize or anyting...
So i really want to get out of our apartment..and im going to stay with my parents for a while...
im so tired....of everything..i mean i do soooo much for him and his family...... i just want him to understand that he can either change his attitude or im gona have to say good bye to him....
i dont want to get married and be unhappy ......

sO WE TALKED AND CRIED..HEHEHE..AND NOW EVERYTHING IS FINE!!!!! HE REALLY DID REALIZE EVERYTHING AND I REALIZED MANY THINGS AS WELL!!!!!
I LOVE HIM SOOO MUCH!!!
THANK YOU GIRLIES FOR ALL YOUR ADVICE!!!!!!!! YOU ARE THE BEST!!!

he gives me butterflies Posted: May 19, 2008 09:52 AM

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sorry to hear hun, hope things blow over. time apart is definitely the best. we're here for you

aliska21 Posted: May 19, 2008 09:53 AM

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THANK YOU...IM JUST SOOO DOWN RIGHT NOW....

NickandTara426 Posted: May 19, 2008 09:54 AM

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Awww!!! I'm sorry! I hope things will get better, he'll realize what he's missing once you're gone. And you don't want to be in an unhappy relationship, because you will just be unhappy. I don't want to make you upset but I want to be honest, maybe this is a sign?

bkposh Posted: May 19, 2008 09:55 AM

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i am really sorry to hear about that but the truth is if you cant work it out then y go through with a marriage that might not work out. we all want to be appreciated but i have come to realize that MOST MEN will never be what we want them to be.. there is such a big difference between men and women and either we can accept those differences or not....something people just cant or wont change no matter how hard we want them to. sometimes people will not appreciate what is done for them or cant appreciate that the things said are said to help not hurt.

i hope that the 2 of you are able to work through your issues and that you will have a long and happy life together but better to find out now before you do get married.

i wish you all the best & maybe those few days apart will work wonders.

chicky724 Posted: May 19, 2008 09:58 AM

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Aww I'm so sorry... I hope everything works out. Maybe a break for a while will help.

galgirl Posted: May 19, 2008 10:00 AM

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flairforfashion Posted: May 19, 2008 10:00 AM

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I am so sorry to hear this. I fight with FH from time to time and we have these talks too. I think all of us do. I know I do!!!! Maybe a few days apart is key and will help you both!

MrsInglima Posted: May 19, 2008 10:05 AM

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i'm so sorry. if you're unhappy you need to stay strong in what you're asking for. if it's meant to be he will come around and make a change so that things will work out. i hope that no matter what happens, it turns out for the best

tinadansr Posted: May 19, 2008 10:10 AM

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hope everything works out! 's for you

aliska21 Posted: May 19, 2008 10:12 AM

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thank you girls.....!!!!!!!!!

GT143EA Posted: May 19, 2008 10:14 AM

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Oh sweetie I'm so sorry. All couples fight. Maybe this is just a little rough patch you guys are going through and it will get better. I hope everything works out

BarbieGrl10 Posted: May 19, 2008 10:18 AM

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I'm sorry to hear this! I hope everything works out. Time will help!

ilonka020 Posted: May 19, 2008 10:23 AM

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i'm so sorry to here this. I hope you guys can work it out.

Jsquared279 Posted: May 19, 2008 10:33 AM

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Oh no! That is awful! I am so sorry! Maybe a few days apart will do the trick! I will keep you and FH in my prayers! We are here if you need us!

springey Posted: May 19, 2008 10:39 AM

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I admire your courage. Having this type of conversation is difficult because you can't be sure of the outcome. But it's obvious that you take getting married seriously or you wouldn't have broached the subject with your FH. Give it time and allow yourself to think clearly as to what you really want from your future husband.