I think one of my BM is going to drop out today 2nd UPDATE: SHE ASKED ME FOR MONEY!!
Original post by CherylBooch
She called me at 7:15 this morning and 'HAD to talk to me about something important' I told her I'd call her later when I got to work. How should I handle this? It's only 65 days to my wedding. I'm not sure how I am feeling. I think it is about the whole money issue.. . but I asked her to be in this wedding 15 MONTHS AGO!
charlotte227
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Re: I think one of my BM is going to drop out today 2nd UPDATE: SHE ASKED ME FOR MONEY!!
Sorry to hear that this was the main reason FH and I decided to have a small wedding party - our motto only aske the number of people WE can pay for- I believe its an honor to ask someone to participate in your wedding I couldn't see asking them topay for it to - yes I'm one of the good ones that laid out the money for each participant at least I can be assured everything as far as attire and such is done and taken care of no excuses - Good luck, breathe it will work itself out.
CherylBooch
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Re: I think one of my BM is going to drop out today 2nd UPDATE: SHE ASKED ME FOR MONEY!!
Nope she isn't getting anything from me. I brought up the possiblity of asking her boyfriend or her mom for help. I just kind of left it at that. She is definitley not backing out by any means, but she's going to somehow get this money. Hopefully her bf and mom will pull through for her. I feel bad for her... but then I don't!
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Re: I think one of my BM is going to drop out today 2nd UPDATE: SHE ASKED ME FOR MONEY!!
Posted by charlotte227
Sorry to hear that this was the main reason FH and I decided to have a small wedding party - our motto only aske the number of people WE can pay for- I believe its an honor to ask someone to participate in your wedding I couldn't see asking them topay for it to - yes I'm one of the good ones that laid out the money for each participant at least I can be assured everything as far as attire and such is done and taken care of no excuses - Good luck, breathe it will work itself out.
glad to hear i am not the only one
i have the opposite 'problem' currently. my FSIL wants to pay for everything and can't take a GIFT! one of my BM's is flying in from california so i refuse to have her pay for anything but the ticket, my little sis (MOH) is flat broke so we will cover her, so since we want everything to be equal, i don't want my FSIL to pay for her dress. she's fighting me tooth and nail!!!
