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madseason Posted:

i think we need to remember....

To have fun - let things go, and go with OUR flow!

We are only going to plan our weddings once....we need to start enjoying it!
alissa5517 Posted:

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I couldn't agree more. It is amazing how as soon as one little thing gows wrong that is all we think about.

Espo22 Posted:

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right before 08, i was seriously ready to pull all my hair out. I did realize that WOW this is the time to enjoy it and dont want to ruin this time. I vowed to make it enjoyable and its so much better. And it also makes a difference with those around you.

madseason Posted:

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Posted by Espo22

right before 08, i was seriously ready to pull all my hair out. I did realize that WOW this is the time to enjoy it and dont want to ruin this time. I vowed to make it enjoyable and its so much better. And it also makes a difference with those around you.



it really does.....pause..take a deep breath...time goes so slow when u do that and in that time u can rethink what you are going to do... I dont want to have a beautiful wedding day and it be all over to realize how horribe the experience was
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by madseason


Posted by Espo22

right before 08, i was seriously ready to pull all my hair out. I did realize that WOW this is the time to enjoy it and dont want to ruin this time. I vowed to make it enjoyable and its so much better. And it also makes a difference with those around you.



it really does.....pause..take a deep breath...time goes so slow when u do that and in that time u can rethink what you are going to do... I dont want to have a beautiful wedding day and it be all over to realize how horribe the experience was



exactly. And its making it so much pleasureable now. For a while there i was ruining it for myself
madseason Posted:

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Posted by Espo22


Posted by madseason


Posted by Espo22

right before 08, i was seriously ready to pull all my hair out. I did realize that WOW this is the time to enjoy it and dont want to ruin this time. I vowed to make it enjoyable and its so much better. And it also makes a difference with those around you.



it really does.....pause..take a deep breath...time goes so slow when u do that and in that time u can rethink what you are going to do... I dont want to have a beautiful wedding day and it be all over to realize how horribe the experience was



exactly. And its making it so much pleasureable now. For a while there i was ruining it for myself



we all do that...not anymore...i have 3 months and i want them to be filled with nothing but fun memories...

I also jhave to remember my mom isnt the enemy....patience!
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by madseason


Posted by Espo22


Posted by madseason


Posted by Espo22

right before 08, i was seriously ready to pull all my hair out. I did realize that WOW this is the time to enjoy it and dont want to ruin this time. I vowed to make it enjoyable and its so much better. And it also makes a difference with those around you.



it really does.....pause..take a deep breath...time goes so slow when u do that and in that time u can rethink what you are going to do... I dont want to have a beautiful wedding day and it be all over to realize how horribe the experience was



exactly. And its making it so much pleasureable now. For a while there i was ruining it for myself



we all do that...not anymore...i have 3 months and i want them to be filled with nothing but fun memories...

I also jhave to remember my mom isnt the enemy....patience!



me too, and i am really enjoying it now. Me being in a good mood about things makes it more easy for FH to deal with me

yes she is NOT your enemy ahahaha
SoontobeMrsMc Posted:

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I couldnt agree more. There are so many times I find myself stressed out about all the little wedding things on my to-do list and my crazy work schedule, that I'm forgetting to enjoy the most important part- my FH!!!!!! I think we all need to force ourselves to focus on all the good things and not let all these little things stress us out!



YAHHHH to all 2008 Brides!!!
mRm2008 Posted:

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Absolutely! I've been doing good... I think, other than the FMIL issues, but hoenstly I try to just ignore her existance. I know that makes me a bad person to say it but it keeps me sane.
I am extremely thankful for meeting everyone on here. w/o you all and this site I might feel VERY different right now
babygirlb Posted:

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I am actually enjoying every minute of it. It was difficult in the beginning, but now I am just moving along making progress.

failurebydsign Posted:

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i decided to do that last week..with only 2 weeks left to go..and now its fun..i honestly did not enjoy anything until the 1st of feb

LauraD419 Posted:

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Well put!!
musicgrl79 Posted:

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AMEN to that!!
bella1028 Posted:

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Agreed
JasonandDana Posted:

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You have NO idea how much I needed that right now......my wedding is exactly 6 months away (August 9th YAY) and I still haven't sent out my 'save the dates' that have been sitting here for a MONTH now!!!! Not to mention, I haven't booked my florist, the OOT guests hotel, or my rehearsal dinner and date! I am totally stressing! I haven't even looked at invitations yet! Plus, I am in the processing of applying to every school district on LI bc I am only part-time pay (even though I work full time) where I am. So I need to try to find a full time teaching job!!!! FH and i have no idea where we are going to live and money is insanely tight!!!! Oh the stress! However, this post just lifted all of that weight off my shoulders because I suddenly remembered I AM GETTING MARRIED!!!!! It is all good things to stress about so it is well worth it! I am happy to have my wedding stress! Thanks for reminding me!


Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by JasonandDana

You have NO idea how much I needed that right now......my wedding is exactly 6 months away (August 9th YAY) and I still haven't sent out my 'save the dates' that have been sitting here for a MONTH now!!!! Not to mention, I haven't booked my florist, the OOT guests hotel, or my rehearsal dinner and date! I am totally stressing! I haven't even looked at invitations yet! Plus, I am in the processing of applying to every school district on LI bc I am only part-time pay (even though I work full time) where I am. So I need to try to find a full time teaching job!!!! FH and i have no idea where we are going to live and money is insanely tight!!!! Oh the stress! However, this post just lifted all of that weight off my shoulders because I suddenly remembered I AM GETTING MARRIED!!!!! It is all good things to stress about so it is well worth it! I am happy to have my wedding stress! Thanks for reminding me!





dont stress youre fine. Many people booked the florist even closer to their wedding date than 6 months. Rehearsal dinner does not need to be done right now, we booked it only last month and some do it even closer to the wedding. LOL i am a month before you and didnt order invites ...i would call some hotels soon and try to block and then the other things do one at a time and you'll be fine.
cammolax23 Posted:

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and we should also realize that there are people out there that are jealous and crazy... and its not going to put a damper on the big day... we are all in this for one reason because we love the man that we are with and want to spend the rest of our lives with them... end of story, and no one can or will tell you differently.

Kimbalina Posted:

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I totally agree!!!
Thank you!
Ms Sawney Posted:

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Posted by madseason

To have fun - let things go, and go with OUR flow!

We are only going to plan our weddings once....we need to start enjoying it!



Very true I try to remember that every day and not let things get the best of me
JasonandDana Posted:

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Denise I truly believe you are every brides saving grace.....you know just the right things to say and you are SO helpful! Your bridesmaids are truly blessed to have you as a friend!

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