I thought it would never happen to me..

I thought it would never happen to me..

I've been having wedding nightmares!!!! Last night I dreamed that my photographer didn't show up to my house before the wedding. Then my Mother was stuck in traffic & couldn't get there in time. I wouldn't get married without her!! (Unfortunatley both my parents are gone so they'll be there but I won't see them! ) Then I was looking in a mirror fixing my veil & I asked my sister what she thought of my dress & she tells me she hates it & it's the wrong color for me. I look down & it almost all bright blue!!!! (that's the second time I dreamt my dress was blue (My dress will have light blue crystals but beleive me it's white) Then I'm in a car again & my brothers boyfriend is making the driver take him somewhere so I'm late & lost!!! Mind you my Fi was nowhere to be found in this dream!!!
The whole thig makes me laugh now!! But my God what a jumble of craziness!!!

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Aren't these dreams funny? Although I never got too stressed during my wedding planning (only when people tried to get involved in my planning) and I still had the dreams. I would wake up hysterical laughing!

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I think it happens to everyone. My wedding is 10 months away and I have already had 2 dreams that I remember: the first one, my dress didnt fit properly and the straps kept falling like, way down, exposing my bra, and the flowers fell apart and no one came to the reception. In the 2nd, I couldn't find Larry (FH) ANYWHERE at the reception hall..I went up and down stairs, in and out of rooms and I couldn't find him - and when I did, not only had he and all the ushers changed into jeans, sweatshirts and sneakers in the middle of the reception, but they were draggin J.Lo along behind them and he goes 'Rach! Look what I found! Look who came to our wedding!'

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I also have had nightmares. Not fun! It has to be all of the stress of thinking about things and planning etc.

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I only had 2 wedding dreams before our wedding. But the thing that has me baffled is I've had two wedding dreams AFTER the wedding. Do they ever stop? DH thinks I'm nuts!

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I had those dreams way before the wedding and didn't have them the last few months before. I kept a journal of them because they were so funny and still make me laugh when I read them. Someone gave me a pound of ground beef for a shower present, I was yelling at people to help me with favors since the wedding was starting, it was always anxiety dreams. Don't worry, Tracy, they will go away soon!!

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Thank God my nightmares stopped, but I'm sure they will pick up again as the date approaches.

Shortly after I got engaged, I had a nightmare in which my wedding was three days away and I forgot to plan it! Then, my dream jumped to my wedding day and my sister and two good friends planned everything. They bought me a wedding dress that looked like a nightgown my grandmother would wear, they dressed my FI in a powder blue tux, complete with ruffles and the music came from the radio. I was so scared when I woke up, but now I can laugh!

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Get used to them hon! I had them for months, but strangely enough, the closer I got to the wedding day (I mean a wekk or so beforehand), they didn't come anymore! I guess the more that was dont and out of the way, the more I felt comfy at night.. It's normal though. No worries!

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I have had 2 wedding nightmares before. Don't they seem so real? I love when I wake up and realize it's a nightmare!

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I think this happens to everyone. I have similar nightmares. It just goes to show you how much this is really on my mind!

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I hate when I first wake-up and I am like did that really happen? Then I really wake up and tell my FH what I dreamt about and he looks at me like I'm crazy

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LOL stacey! FH looks at me the same way!