Who else here is dealing with an alsolute Monster in Law. In the last few days here is what I've been dealing with: * Her request for 2 Mother Son Dances * Control of the Guest list * Completeing undermining my wishes and manipulating my FH * Causing major fights between my fH and I * Completely losing my trust. I want to call it all off!!!!!!
Brendanzgirl
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I'm so sorry! Hang in there!
mrsdraskin2009
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You have to put her in her place!! It's not HER wedding...FMIL's can be awful!!!!!!!!!!!
Walkintomymind
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Aww. My FMIL is....a little over the top....but not as bad as yours sounds!!! Tell her she can have as much control as she wants over the stuff she pays for. I would talk to FH and have him sit down and have a talk with her.
Hasn't she had her wedding already?
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ask him to stand behind you and your decisions since its your wedding and he needs to support you instead of his mother.
that's it right there. your FH needs to get his mother in line. i don't think it's appropriate for you to confront her about boundaries if he hasn't yet.
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Do you need our help? We can all dress in black and wear masks and go to her house and tell her whats up?! Hehehe just kidding... but we are here for you Im sorry you are going thru this
cedesnyc
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oh wow....sorry you're going through that...why is she so involved in your wedding? it should be about both of you
MrsCtobe
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u should tell your fh to deal with his mother. i think everyone should deal with their own parents...remember, they'll forgive him, but hold a grudge against you forever.
I Know how you feel!!!!! ... she has commented on EVERYTHING!!!! thankfully FH is on my side when it comes to our wedding he tells his mom that it's 'our wedding' so if someone doesn't like something they dont have to come! maybe you can talk to FH about the plans and tell him how you feel about your wedding being taken over by someone else.
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Posted by Utterhappiness
Do you need our help? We can all dress in black and wear masks and go to her house and tell her whats up?! Hehehe just kidding... but we are here for you Im sorry you are going thru this
thank you all! i feel much better now and plus this is my wedding. i'll be strong!!
jbabidoll23
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I know how you feel my FMIL is very overbearing. She wants to control EVERYTHING. But I talked to Fh and he sets her straight.
Lisa218
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stay strong.. don't let it bother you
ajlgmm815
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Hang in there girl!! I'am going through the same things but i had my FH sit and talk to his mom! He explained how this was our!! day and not hers and to allow me to make the decisions, having the support of your FH is key.
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I understand how stressful this can be but dont let her win. Remeber stand up for yourself this is your day do hat you want and what you feel is right. If you let her have her way your always gonna regret it
