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I want to get married, and have this big wedding, and the whole shabang.. but..

Original post by JZNCK

I didn't think I wanted to yesterday. FI and I have been living together for 2 1/2 years, and it's like we're married, so we share finances.. and we were going over our debt, it's nothing HUGE but it's still there, and I was contemplating having the wedding.. It seems like so much for one day, but then everyone was telling me to do it, and I may feel that way now, but in the long run it's for the best, and if I don't I'll regret it.. I tried to cut back on the budget but i don't want to.. what's $22,000 vs $25,000 if your gonna do it you mine as well do it right.. RIGHT???!!!!???

Has anyonelse felt this way?? second guessed their wedding??

it seems like I got through this every 5 months.. lol. I can't wait til it's here!!!!!!!!!!
OSCARtheGROOM Posted:

Re: I want to get married, and have this big wedding, and the whole shabang.. but..

I feel this way sometimes. The money you spend on a wedding can be used as a down payment for a house or co-op. My fw wants her fairytale wedding. She deserves it, and i will do everything possible to make this come true!!! (in my eyes she deserves it)
JZNCK Posted:

Re: I want to get married, and have this big wedding, and the whole shabang.. but..


I feel this way sometimes. The money you spend on a wedding can be used as a down payment for a house or co-op. My fw wants her fairytale wedding. She deserves it, and i will do everything possible to make this come true!!! (in my eyes she deserves it)



AWW.. MY FI SAYS THE SAME THING..IT DOES HELP OUT A LOT..

THANKS EVERYONE!!!!!!!!!
dm24angel Posted:

Re: I want to get married, and have this big wedding, and the whole shabang.. but..

I debate this 'big' wedding every single day, I keep thinking I could just pay two years worth of rent and sit pretty and save and on and on, must stop with the ANDS!!! It will all be worth it.....right???
JZNCK Posted:

Re: I want to get married, and have this big wedding, and the whole shabang.. but..


I debate this 'big' wedding every single day, I keep thinking I could just pay two years worth of rent and sit pretty and save and on and on, must stop with the ANDS!!! It will all be worth it.....right???


YES IT WILL BE WORTH IT!!!!!!!!!

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