I WANT TO SMACK MY BM!

Original post by Ronnie&Theresa

Jan 20, 2003 02:04 PM

WHo is my la familia..

She said THERESA how dare you book your wedding the week b4 Christmas its so hard on me..

I told her STAY HOME.. I don't need you in BP or even there..

She has 697 days to save..

Am I NUTS?

Ronnie&Theresa Posted: Jan 20, 2003 03:27 PM

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I told her..

Save 5 bucks for the next 697 days and you will have more then enuff CASH!!

Stacey1403 Posted: Jan 20, 2003 03:29 PM

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What you really need to ask yourself is do I want this person in my wedding? Will she ruin my day? Family should stand by you!

nycchic_24 Posted: Jan 20, 2003 03:36 PM

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I totally agree with stacey...thats what i did...and i came to the conclusion that her and her husband would sooooooooo have ruined my day. Better off without them. Now when i look at my pics..i see that everyone in them r people i care about!

dgtlsunshine Posted: Jan 20, 2003 03:38 PM

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I tell you people sure get ugly around weddings.
I had some discoveries and initially it really hurt b/c some of these people were people that I have known for years on top of years.

I agree with the girls. I am glad I had the experience b/c I truly got to saw who really loved and cared about us.

Snowboardgirl Posted: Jan 20, 2003 03:54 PM

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Tell her that the only thing that will ruin your wedding is her!!

If she is complaining now, imagine how she will be a week before the big day!!

Maybe she's PMSing

MISHY Posted: Jan 20, 2003 04:05 PM

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All I can say is UGGHHHHHH ! Can people choose anything else to complain about! I think she will have more then enough time to save some money!

Becky Posted: Jan 20, 2003 04:31 PM

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I can't believe she said those things. First of all what makes her think that (a) you are going to spend 50K on your wedding ot (b) that you expect to make that money back. If I could make 50K off of a wedding, I would be my fifth marriage by now.

I think it is great that your mom (I think you said your mom) is going to pay for your DP on a house. And you have plenty of time to save for a fabulous wedding that you can pay off before the big day.

It sounds like she is very jealous that you are having your DP paid for and that you have plenty of time to save for your wedding. I am going to guess that she is/was not nearly as fortunate as you. Count your blessings, T, and leave this girl to her jealous misery.

dgtlsunshine Posted: Jan 20, 2003 04:39 PM

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Becky yes I would be on my tenth by now as well.

Julybaby Posted: Jan 20, 2003 05:46 PM

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I can't believe this girl is complaining about your wedding being so close to the holidays when it's NEXT YEAR!!! If she is giving you misery now, it can only be worse when your wedding approaches. Who needs that? BTW, did you ask her when would be a more convenient time for HER to hold YOUR wedding? Good grief!

avesur Posted: Jan 20, 2003 06:01 PM

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OMG!!! Get away from her! You don't want such misery around you in such an important day!

Weddings bring a lot of joy, but also some people show their darkest side too!

LnP2003 Posted: Jan 20, 2003 06:29 PM

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cw0904 Posted: Jan 21, 2003 09:29 AM

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OMG Theresa she has some set of ball$$ on her!!!

Ronnie&Theresa Posted: Jan 21, 2003 09:30 AM

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Let's just say b4 I got blessed last night..

WE went AT it on the phone.. SHe is a lowlife piece of Sh**!

stacey27 Posted: Jan 21, 2003 09:35 AM

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Why even waste your time with her.RIGHT HER OFF.Dont lose sleep over it look for someone else who would be honerd to be in your wedding party.Good luck to you !! (WHAT A LOSER SHE IS)

Sassy Posted: Jan 21, 2003 09:44 AM

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DANG
What a freakin loser !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Steer clear of her

WithThisRing Posted: Jan 21, 2003 09:47 AM

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OMG

I would smack that girl until my hand hurt then smack her again for making my hand hurt.

I joked with my matron that she can not be pregnant for my wedding. She is pregnant now and is due mid september. I told her the wedding is sept 2004 and I need her to not be pregnant so i can have my drinking buddy. she laughed. it was all in good fun. but this girl is way out of line.

there are brides who get married days before christmas and have a wonderful holiday celebration. dont let this chica give you grief. smack her around and knock some sense into her.
its not worth getting into a fight with her. its your day and if she doesnt want to be apart of it, then to hell with her.

Sassy Posted: Jan 21, 2003 09:49 AM

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My birthday is Dec 18th !! Should I cancel my birthday b/c of Christmas ????
This girl is too through, get rid of her

Betty Posted: Jan 21, 2003 09:51 AM

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Weddings will surely let you know who your friends are

WithThisRing Posted: Jan 21, 2003 09:54 AM

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my good friend, her birthday is on christmas. so does that mean she doesnt get to have a birthday because its on christmas.

some ppl have the nerve. its your day and you do what you want. you're the bride