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i was bishing up a storm

grkbarbie Posted:

i was bishing up a storm

about medical. how i wanna see a dermatologist and get the rest of my toofuses pulled (525$ bill for dental surgery with my own dental plan)..

so fh was like uhm.. wait a min.. can we get married 2morrow in city hall so u can have better medical? im lke no mon -fri he slike ok great ill take off monday and we'll go get married

im like ehhhhhhhhh how bout no?

should i?lol
marrymybestfriend Posted:

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this was brought up a while ago... there were reasons why you cant... but i dont recall what they were

grkbarbie Posted:

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lmaooooooo *** are u 1 of the founding fathers of homosexuality??(nice icon!)

what u mean whyi cant?
CloudNine Posted:

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no you can, cuz once they are married then they can go on eachotehrs plans. i tried to add john onto my plan under a domestic thing but couldnt. but i think thats why amanda was getting married tonight

marrymybestfriend Posted:

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lol... the newlywedder kim said i should use it as my icon... so i complied. it's temporary

well you can get married now... and then just have a reception at a later date.. .but once you're legally married, a priest, or officiant of whatever sort wont beble to perform anotehr service
CloudNine Posted:

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im not sure if your question was about the insurance or doing the ceremony part twice

grkbarbie Posted:

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yea, unless ur ghey this domestic partner ship wont work.

i guess ill have to wait til april. watch me get in a bad car accident and need a blood transfusion.
barbtony Posted:

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Posted by CloudNine

no you can, cuz once they are married then they can go on eachotehrs plans. i tried to add john onto my plan under a domestic thing but couldnt. but i think thats why amanda was getting married tonight



Jackie is right. That's why Amanda went tonite.
MikesBride2B Posted:

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Posted by grkbarbie

yea, unless ur ghey this domestic partner ship wont work.

i guess ill have to wait til april. watch me get in a bad car accident and need a blood transfusion.



Nooooooo don't say that!! POO POO POO! (That's what my Mom says to ward off the evil eye....its in lieu of actual spitting hahaha)
grkbarbie Posted:

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lol mine too!! its more like 'ptooouu pteww pteww'

last time she actually spit.. so i coughed up a looogie to gross her out lmaoo im such a pig
20mrsc10 Posted:

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i actually brought up doing this with fh if i dont have a job in september--i need insurance!

Kiki1103 Posted:

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Posted by grkbarbie

yea, unless ur ghey this domestic partner ship wont work.

i guess ill have to wait til april. watch me get in a bad car accident and need a blood transfusion.



Barbs! ahhhhh don't say that! I just knocked on wood three times for youuuu.
Im getting Married Posted:

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You should be able to get added to his insurance with a Domestic partnership...you pay like $40 and bring proof that you share a household.

Every job that allows you to add your spouse must let you add a DP..you might have to pay a bit more but they can't deny you
Nichole2010 Posted:

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someone got married tonight??

grrulz Posted:

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aww Barb! just wait for your wedding! it will be special!!

CloudNine Posted:

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Posted by Im getting Married

You should be able to get added to his insurance with a Domestic partnership...you pay like $40 and bring proof that you share a household.

Every job that allows you to add your spouse must let you add a DP..you might have to pay a bit more but they can't deny you



thats what i thought but my job told me no!!
FallBride2010 Posted:

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Posted by CloudNine


Posted by Im getting Married

You should be able to get added to his insurance with a Domestic partnership...you pay like $40 and bring proof that you share a household.

Every job that allows you to add your spouse must let you add a DP..you might have to pay a bit more but they can't deny you



thats what i thought but my job told me no!!




you are right, I dont think all companies do this. I know some people who couldnt, as well. Thankfully I was able to add Fh and his kids on my plan!
Im getting Married Posted:

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Do you work for a small company? Either way I would check out the NYC.gov website. Sometimes companies don't relize or don't want to admit that they have to add a DP. The website has all the ways to have someone added and which companies have to abid by these rules.


HTH
JoanneAndJustin Posted:

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The priest will perform your ceremony after you are married in a civil union, they just don't call it the sacrement of marriage... it has another name... like, re-commitment or something. A lot of priests WON'T do it, but some will... My friends had a hard time finding someone who would marry them in a church after they had a civil union, but they did find someone... so it can be done.

sykogodezz Posted:

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Posted by marrymybestfriend

lol... the newlywedder kim said i should use it as my icon... so i complied. it's temporary

well you can get married now... and then just have a reception at a later date.. .but once you're legally married, a priest, or officiant of whatever sort wont beble to perform anotehr service




Yes they can

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