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If I see 1 more RH, I am going to scream! Please help!

Original post by LoveyDovey

ugghhhhh

as some of you may know...FH & I have had a verrryyyy hard time finding an RH...we've prob seen at least 15

the hall is either not our taste or too expensive!

what do we do??? do we settle for something not our taste to save some $ or splurge and get the hall of our dreams?? p.s. we haven't found the hall of our dreams yet!

Here's what we saw so far

Woodbury CC
Smithtown Landing
Timberpoint CC
Bellport CC
Woodlands
Chateau La Mer
Riviera
Land's End
Bourne Mansion
Vanderbilt Mansion
Three Village Inn
Royalton Mansion
Carlyle on the Green
North Ritz Club
Hamlet Willow Creek
Hamlet Wind Watch
Giorgio's
Rafael Vineyards

Top 2 places are
Royalton
Carlyle on the Green

but they are a lot of money

Giorgio's was nice...but not a fan of the carpet, love the outdoor area tho- we felt like Caryle was the perfect mix of the royalton and giorgios- simple and elegant ballroom of the royalton with the beautiful outdoor space of giorgios

the runner up would be North Ritz Club which is beautiful but after seeing royalton and carlyle, it feels like i'd be settling

going to prob disappoint myself and see Inn at NHP this weekend- but scared about their 175 minimum

here's our must have list...maybe you girls can help with other suggestions...

MUST BE ONE WEDDING AT A TIME- nooooo compromising on that

preferably, NO carpet!

pretty chandeliers but not gawdy

simple and elegant- no marble or crazy colors

MUST have nice grounds, outdoor ceremony and outdoor CH option

jwleewedding Posted:

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i saw in one of your older posts that you loved bourne mansion... what happened?



FH didn't like the organ in the back of the room!

he literally refuses to get married there because of this

i looooooove the bourne...it was the only reception hall that i walked into and was like 'wow this is the one'




haha aww, we could have had another bourne bride!




wow, seriously!? the organ is what i fell in love with! i think it's a gorgeous instrument and it's so grand!




i agree! i absolutely love the place! unfortunately im dealing with groomzilla!



i'm so sorry... we would have loved to have another bourne bride! i hope you find what you're looking for~
allornil Posted:

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Posted by jwleewedding

i saw in one of your older posts that you loved bourne mansion... what happened?



FH didn't like the organ in the back of the room!

he literally refuses to get married there because of this

i looooooove the bourne...it was the only reception hall that i walked into and was like 'wow this is the one'




haha aww, we could have had another bourne bride!




wow, seriously!? the organ is what i fell in love with! i think it's a gorgeous instrument and it's so grand!




i agree! i absolutely love the place! unfortunately im dealing with groomzilla!



he must be related to my FH. he reuses to look anywhere else but land's End and i'm getting pissed and wont commit. Groomzilla x10000000000.
LoveyDovey Posted:

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Posted by jwleewedding


Posted by itbroi805


Posted by LoveyDovey


Posted by jwleewedding

i saw in one of your older posts that you loved bourne mansion... what happened?



FH didn't like the organ in the back of the room!

he literally refuses to get married there because of this

i looooooove the bourne...it was the only reception hall that i walked into and was like 'wow this is the one'




haha aww, we could have had another bourne bride!




wow, seriously!? the organ is what i fell in love with! i think it's a gorgeous instrument and it's so grand!




i agree! i absolutely love the place! unfortunately im dealing with groomzilla!



he must be related to my FH. he reuses to look anywhere else but land's End and i'm getting pissed and wont commit. Groomzilla x10000000000.





ummmm he MUST be...bc FH ONLY wanted to look at Land's End when we first started looking...he SWORE that's where we would get married!
redhead5328 Posted:

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if you havent yet, you should check out Eastwind. of course there's a bit of bias here considering this wher e i'm having mine but the grounds are beautiful and me and fh really got a good deal. FM me if you want any info as far as price and things. HTH!

jwleewedding Posted:

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soo.... i just stumbled across this... but, BUT, if you are willing to look outside LI....

this place is really interesting... if you want something different...

check this out - click here
LoveyDovey Posted:

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Posted by jwleewedding

soo.... i just stumbled across this... but, BUT, if you are willing to look outside LI....

this place is really interesting... if you want something different...

check this out - click here



thanks! that place looks amazing! I just emailed them!
jwleewedding Posted:

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Posted by LoveyDovey


Posted by jwleewedding

soo.... i just stumbled across this... but, BUT, if you are willing to look outside LI....

this place is really interesting... if you want something different...

check this out - click here



thanks! that place looks amazing! I just emailed them!



cool! let me know how it turns out!
jwleewedding Posted:

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here's another... not so 'normal' place....

click here

one of my gf's brought it up to me.. if you like the rustic feel and exposed brick, you might love it...

very out of the box, but gives you a LOT of room for creativity~
madamsireeda213 Posted:

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Posted by jwleewedding

here's another... not so 'normal' place....

click here

one of my gf's brought it up to me.. if you like the rustic feel and exposed brick, you might love it...

very out of the box, but gives you a LOT of room for creativity~



I love the Foundry!! Both FH and I wanted to get married there but we have too many guests :( BUt it is absolutely beautiful! It overlook Manhattan and your pictures will be gorgeous! The inside with the bricks, just beauiful! Def check it out!
LoveyDovey Posted:

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site says it only holds 125 too small for us boooo

jwleewedding Posted:

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Posted by LoveyDovey

site says it only holds 125 too small for us boooo



aw, that *****... didn't know how much room you needed...

now that i know you're a little more open to just LI places... i'll keep my eyes open for ya~
Camroy Posted:

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What about the de Seversky Center?

shelbylove918 Posted:

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that angel orenz place is rediculously expensive.. just a heads up!! I know you mentioned lookin at the Inn at New Hyde Park.. I was against lookin here at first then my sis in law told me i had to check it out.. I wound up lookin there and Fell inlove as soon as I walked in.. they are willing to work with you so I would def check it out!!! the ballroom is gorgeous and the cocktail hour upstairs sold us!!!! def worth lookin into. good luck!!
2010 Mrs Clarke Posted:

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ok I know you siand one wedding at a time and you werent willing to compromise but if you just dont want to see another bride on your day then check out Jericho Terrace. Also, The Inn they do one wedding at a time but a little pricey. God Bless and hope all works out!

jwleewedding Posted:

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Posted by shelbylove918

that angel orenz place is rediculously expensive.. just a heads up!! I know you mentioned lookin at the Inn at New Hyde Park.. I was against lookin here at first then my sis in law told me i had to check it out.. I wound up lookin there and Fell inlove as soon as I walked in.. they are willing to work with you so I would def check it out!!! the ballroom is gorgeous and the cocktail hour upstairs sold us!!!! def worth lookin into. good luck!!



BTW.. i dont believe the inn is 1 wedding a day... and i know that's something you wanted
kerber981 Posted:

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Posted by LoveyDovey
here's our must have list...maybe you girls can help with other suggestions...

MUST BE ONE WEDDING AT A TIME- nooooo compromising on that

preferably, NO carpet!

pretty chandeliers but not gawdy

simple and elegant- no marble or crazy colors

MUST have nice grounds, outdoor ceremony and outdoor CH option



You are describing The Carltun 100% (btw those were all of my rules too lol)
LoveyDovey Posted:

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Im going to see the Carltun on Sunday...it is the absolute last place I will go see...I refuse to see any more!

maybe im saving 'the best for last??'


is that where you are booked?
CappyGirl Posted:

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Posted by shelbylove918

that angel orenz place is rediculously expensive.. just a heads up!! I know you mentioned lookin at the Inn at New Hyde Park.. I was against lookin here at first then my sis in law told me i had to check it out.. I wound up lookin there and Fell inlove as soon as I walked in.. they are willing to work with you so I would def check it out!!! the ballroom is gorgeous and the cocktail hour upstairs sold us!!!! def worth lookin into. good luck!!



I know I already applied to this thread, but I was the same exact way! But we fell in love too - there's lots to love about it. Let us know how it goes there this weekend!! GL
lpk586 Posted:

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I think Old Field Club is your place! I loved it but couldn't afford it. Kind of a weird shape w/ the dance floor at the head of the room and the bar along the dance floor, but I've attended weddings there and it was absolutely no problem whatsoever.

Good luck. Stick with it! I was in your shoes and settled on the Hamlet Willow Creek. Felt so good just to book and be done and now I'm very happy w/ my choice!
lpk586 Posted:

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Another thought...what about Trumpets? Only holds about 130, I think. Not sure if you have more.

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