If invited to e-party...do they get invite to wedding too

Original post by jenny2penny

Jun 17, 2003 04:35 PM

If someone asked me this, I'd say YES..

But there are a few people that we might want to invite to the e-party,,less formal,,,but when the time comes for the wedding, next year, may not want too. What woud you do????

Jordan Posted: Jun 18, 2003 03:22 PM

Re: If invited to e-party...do they get invite to wedding too

I agree with everyone else - all or nothing. And no, they shouldn't be offended if they're not invited to the e-party...for all they know, you're having a small, intimate, family affair.

eroxgirl Posted: Jun 18, 2003 03:23 PM

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Normally, I would agree with everyone and say that if they were invited to your e-party they should be invited to your wedding, but, when my best friend had her e party she invited 2 couples that did not get invited to her wedding.

The first couple were friends w/ her DH and the check they gave as a gift bounced and they never made an attempt to clear it up, and they pretty much never saw or heard from them in the year between the eparty and the wedding, so her DH refused to invite him. The second couple had completely lost contact from the time of the eparty to the wedding, so she didn't feel the need to invite them either!

MichaelsGirl Posted: Jun 19, 2003 02:11 AM

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Everyone invited to my e-party is invited to my wedding. I think that an e-party is meant for close family and friends and then the wedding is an extension of those people who were invited to the e-party.

Jenn524 Posted: Jun 19, 2003 06:39 AM

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I invited everyone from my e-party to the wedding, except one person. But that was because we had a fall out over the year and I just couldn't invie her to the wedding. Plus she didn't even come to the e-party.

Personally, I would be very offended if I were invited to an e-party and not invited to the wedding.

jenny2penny Posted: Jun 19, 2003 06:43 AM

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ok ok ok, thanks girls..I will not invite them. I never really thought of the e-party as being intimate friends and family. I thought you invite all the same people?