If you found out your bridesmaid was talking about you at your wedding . ..(LONG)
Original post by 12-3Princess
Hi ladies,
Got a question for ya: If you found out one of your bridesmaids was talking about you all day the day before your wedding, and the day of, what would you do? Would you confront her, tell her off, ignore her? Would you keep the friendship?
In my case, I found out from my sister that the day before my wedding, this particular girl would roll her eyes and say 'will it ever end?' every time I talked about the wedding - which was probably a lot since I was getting married the next day. Incidentally, she had just gotten married in June, and I listened to her talk about it NONSTOP for two years and was genuinely HAPPY for her.
Then, I found out from another friend that on my wedding day, this bridesmaid ran right up to our mutual friend and said that I was driving her nuts, was being a total B!tch, and was being 'bridezilla.'
I also found out in my cocktail hour that she was bascially talking about how she disagreed with certain things I did at my wedding as compared to hers (all immature stuff like how she'd NEVER get married in NYC, and that LI was so much better, how she had a DJ and would NEVER have a band like I did, etc... all stupid, I'm sure the root of it was probably jealousy because I was happy and maybe she isn't, or just her sheer childishness)...
What do you think you would do about this friend? She was so fake too - coming up to me all day telling me how much she loves me. Yea, I can tell.
Thanks for any opinions and advice!
peabody
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Re: If you found out your bridesmaid was talking about you at your wedding . ..(LONG)
I had some major issues with my MOH, ,my sister and my Mom regarding my shower (that was a joke of a shower, they invited 3 people) and our wedding (my mom and sister were over 2 1/2 hours late). I am not going to get into the details, but their behavior and comments ended my relationship with my sister and MOH.
I didn't talk to my mom for almost a year because of her behavior. We are talking now, but it took awhile.
I refuse to have anything to do with my MOH and my sister. I don't need or want them in my life and I am a much happier person.
Those 3 individuals were supposed to be the most supportive of me and have my best intentions at heart, but they were the worst. I was made fun of at my shower and called bridezilla by sister with my MOH and mom laughing. I could go on... but it's not worth it.
You are a married woman with a loving husband starting a wonderful life together. I say just cut negative people out of your life and enjoy being a newlywed. Good Luck!!!
12-3Princess
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Re: If you found out your bridesmaid was talking about you at your wedding . ..(LONG)
Posted by peabody
I had some major issues with my MOH, ,my sister and my Mom regarding my shower (that was a joke of a shower, they invited 3 people) and our wedding (my mom and sister were over 2 1/2 hours late). I am not going to get into the details, but their behavior and comments ended my relationship with my sister and MOH.
I didn't talk to my mom for almost a year because of her behavior. We are talking now, but it took awhile.
I refuse to have anything to do with my MOH and my sister. I don't need or want them in my life and I am a much happier person.
Those 3 individuals were supposed to be the most supportive of me and have my best intentions at heart, but they were the worst. I was made fun of at my shower and called bridezilla by sister with my MOH and mom laughing. I could go on... but it's not worth it.
You are a married woman with a loving husband starting a wonderful life together. I say just cut negative people out of your life and enjoy being a newlywed. Good Luck!!!
I'm so sorry you had to deal with that! I think you are completely right though. There is no point or purpose to having negative people like this in my life. They are just like a poison during a very happy time.
Thanks for your support!!!
Bobbysgirl
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Hmm.... I know me and I would confront her... I probably shouldn't and let it go... but I know myself and a confrontatin would definitely happen... that was your day - your way.... no one - especially a BM - should talk about you or your wedding... ESPECIALLY AT THE WEDDING.
Its up to you... but my Italian blood would make me talk to her lol
gNi1125
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I'd confront her and then tell her to have a nice life. Life is too short to be surrounded by miserable people. She's freakin' low...of all days to talk sh*t about you...she picks your wedding. I'm sure whoever she was talking to knew it was out of pure jealousy.
seta
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i am not going to sugar coat anything or analyze any explaination..i would point blank call her out on it. how dare she make those comments about you????? what a negative biotch!!! I would def. confront her. she is def. jealous and i wouldn't even bother with her. you do not need a negative loser in your life!
