If you sent someone an STD but don't speak to them anymore...

EJSD2006 Posted: Mar 20, 2006 07:52 PM

If you sent someone an STD but don't speak to them anymore...

...should you still invite them to your wedding??? An ex-BM and I are really not on speaking terms but she'll be expecting the invite since she got the STD. What do I do???

Mrs. dleeny Posted: Mar 20, 2006 08:12 PM

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if she's an ex-BM and you don't speak anymore, I wouldn't invite her.

M&LSept1606 Posted: Mar 20, 2006 08:13 PM

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I would not invite her

bride2b24 Posted: Mar 20, 2006 08:15 PM

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i wouldnt worry about it......i remember your situation....dont sweat it!

shelby34 Posted: Mar 20, 2006 08:28 PM

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Don't invite her. My cousin was in a similar situation and didn't invite the person. If things are already bad, who cares!?

Tiggeruth Posted: Mar 20, 2006 08:30 PM

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I wouldn't invite her.

CLMon7906 Posted: Mar 20, 2006 08:55 PM

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Posted by alnem

...should you still invite them to your wedding??? An ex-BM and I are really not on speaking terms but she'll be expecting the invite since she got the STD. What do I do???

I have 2 ex-BMs...guess what? neither are getting invited....I haven't spoken to either one since November I believe...and that was in an angry email.

klslk Posted: Mar 20, 2006 08:58 PM

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Yup.. don't invite 'em.

camerakrazie Posted: Mar 20, 2006 09:00 PM

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don't invite her!! I know its not as easy as i am saying it but she was an EX for a reason...right?

or you can just be the bigger person and not let it bother you? you have to think...do you really want this person at your wedding? that should tell you right there what your answer is

OctoberPrincess2006 Posted: Mar 20, 2006 09:52 PM

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If she is an ex bridesmaid and you are no longer on speaking terms with her then I would not invite her. I personally would feel uncomfortable going to someones wedding that I am no longer a part JMO.

MrsStefan Posted: Mar 20, 2006 10:26 PM

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If you don't talk to her anymore then I wouldnt invite her.

ahall04 Posted: Mar 20, 2006 10:27 PM

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I wouldn't invite her. Not worth having someone at your wedding who is not on good terms with you. Why would she want to come anyway?

EJSD2006 Posted: Mar 20, 2006 11:03 PM

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Thanks for the advice ladies. I last spoke to the girl about a month ago when she called me to say she was in town and wanted to give back the BM dress. I got it back and she said she 'didn't want it to be weird between us'. But that's exactly what it is. We don't email each other to stay in touch, I'm most definitely not calling her to say hi, I sent her a text message on her birthday last month and she never responded back. Now she's made an excuse not to come to my shower. Although she got the STD and her invite has already been done by the calligrapher, I don't think I'll be inviting her.