If your Fh/DH got invited to a wedding without out you:

Original post by nrvbrd

Jul 28, 2003 01:01 PM

would you be terribly upset?

I ask this because a friend of FH is in a wedding, the guy and his fiancee are about to send out invites, and they told everyone in the wedding party that due to cutbacks that they are NOT allowed to bring guests. The fianceof FH's friend is very upset.

My Fh being the sensitive person that he is says that she has to deal with it and understand that it is beyond her control.

I, myself am on a budget and being extremely cognizant of my guest list, but I would NEVER invite a wife without her husband or vice versa, or a seriously involved couple without the other. IMO, it is just not right.

cw0904 Posted: Jul 28, 2003 02:51 PM

Re: If your Fh/DH got invited to a wedding without out you:

That is flat out rude!!! A couple is a couple fair and square. FH would be extremely pi$$ed if that happened to us. If I were the guy, I would drop out of the BP. Its not like its his flavor of the month. She is his fiancee for crying out loud!

butterfly20 Posted: Jul 28, 2003 04:00 PM

Re: If your Fh/DH got invited to a wedding without out you:

first off, people in the bridal party should always get a guest...and wifes/serious significant others should be invited too..
if my FH was invited to a wedding without me he would turn the wedding down immediately, no matter who it is

LizD Posted: Jul 28, 2003 04:05 PM

Re: If your Fh/DH got invited to a wedding without out you:

That is really rude. Especially if this guy is in the wedding party. I am sure he is going to an expense to be in their wedding party, and he obviously means a lot to them to be asked to be in the bp. How could you tell him he can not bring a guest? I believe that is a terrible thing to do

acp1101 Posted: Jul 28, 2003 04:26 PM

Re: If your Fh/DH got invited to a wedding without out you:

I think that is rude.

Besides the fact I would NEVER attend a party that my FI was not invited to, how can you tell someone that you can come...but your FI or spouse can't.

I understand the whole saving money thing...but I think it's VERY rude and looks classless.