im 43 days from wedding and ready to drop a BM VENTTTT

amandamichael Posted: Jan 20, 2011 09:24 PM

im 43 days from wedding and ready to drop a BM VENTTTT

so one of my bms has been giving me problems from the begining and ive just sooo had ittt

shes a friend of the family and she basically assumed she was in the wedding so i just went along with it
shes been a headache with the dresses with the shoes, shes made whatever comments she possibly could-- she doesnt like my besttttt friend bc her friend dated my bf brother, so she started with that when we booked jamaica on some i dont wanna be in her room bc shes a clepto-- ps- shes not, shes got nothing against her other than her friends doesnt like her brother---so i went off and explained that was my best friend since we were kids and if she had a problem she could walk away from the wedding- its just been one thing after another and its constant bs and nonsense

one of her friends wante dto go away for her bday which was also my bparty weekend- i heard that she asked them or told them to come to jamaica-- uhh really? i let that go that never happened

last week we were in a fb thread trying to figure out how we were going to get to the airport since we have a 6am flight and fh was supposed to drive us but hell be in fl for his bparty-- everyones trying to figure it out and she writes, oh my bf wants to take me so ill se you there- no oh im driving if anyone wants to come with me? like really? so im like nice of you to not offer it to anyone else like what the?

maybe im crazyyyy

today on fb i see her write on this same girls wall:

i feel terrible taht im not going to b here for you birthday bc i have to go on the f---ing trip?

for realllllll? have you lost your damn mind? i didnt know going to jamaica was a chore- and if you didnt wanna go--- stay the f home

what the hell is wrong with this girl

ladies, i have sooo had it-- i just messaged her and told her to stay home with her firend for her birthday since its a f---ing trip and its such a horrible terrible thing

waht the hell is wrong with girls?
im soooooooooooo doneeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

CantWait2Wed Posted: Jan 20, 2011 09:27 PM

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That's insane. Are you going to kick her to the curb?

Mommy2BeBride Posted: Jan 20, 2011 09:29 PM

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WOW! I'd totally drop her. She obviously doesn't appreciate being part of your special day.
Ugh I hope it all works out for you!

bartgirl12 Posted: Jan 20, 2011 09:31 PM

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hopefully she'll get point and just kick herself out of your BP. that sucks! i would have taken her spot in jamaica in a heartbeat!!

wiggleit28 Posted: Jan 20, 2011 09:33 PM

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Posted by bartgirl12

hopefully she'll get point and just kick herself out of your BP. that sucks! i would have taken her spot in jamaica in a heartbeat!!

Agreed! How completely messed up of her to post that on FB so you could see. I think the trip will be much better without her!

rendel Posted: Jan 20, 2011 09:35 PM

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sorry amanda, you don't deserve this!!!!!! Seriously, dealing with fmil was enough for you!

adelz Posted: Jan 20, 2011 09:39 PM

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Ugh, that is so un-cool! I'm sorry you have to deal w/ this! I say if she's giving you this much stress and does not appreciate being in the BP - take her out of it!

mrsq2be Posted: Jan 20, 2011 09:41 PM

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woah - thats f-ing crazy! i dont blame you for beign so fed up! she needs to get her act together and either suck it up and keep her mouth shut, or leave the BP. thats crazy. if she says anything else to you i would totally not blame you for kicking her out! she had it coming!

LoveyDovey Posted: Jan 20, 2011 09:46 PM

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yikes!!!!

can i give you some advice?

I was sort of in a reverse situation...i was the MOH and BFF for my friends wedding 2? years ago.

She was a major bridezilla, not happy with her relationship and we had some personality issues altho we were best friends, we always got past it, we just bickered a lot like a married couple

well, we went to vegas for her bach party and what ended up happening was that SHE flew home bc she was upset with me

i know its not the same situation but my best advice to you is to nip that sh*t in the bud now!!!! bc you do not want your trip ruined!!!

I think you did the right thing by confronting her...I wish in my situation, I had confronted my friend before the bparty, I feel bad for her that her bparty was ruined and ulimately her wedding as well bc i stepped down as an MOH and she had a work friend fill in.

( i know you prob think im a crazy b*tch friend/moh lol but i gave you the shortened story)

i hope you can work this out...you dont need or want some crazy chick upsetting ANY part of your special time in your life!!!!

jgold910 Posted: Jan 20, 2011 09:51 PM

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Girls - let get together and kick some BM butt LIW style!!! sorry you have to deal with this!

amandamichael Posted: Jan 20, 2011 09:52 PM

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haha honestly i sent her a bbm with her exact message copied and wrote didnt know jamaica was a chore, stay home for your friends bday and do yourself a favor, wear your bridesmaids dress to her party, get some use of out of bc im so done with you and all your ****--

maybe im being a b----tch but really, i dont need this, im way too close to my wedding, and these girls are supposed to be helping me not creating headaches

am i crazy for being done with her?