So all of my bridesmaids have children. My best friend just had a baby 9 weeks ago. I went out to dinner with her and another friend and the entire conversation was about the babies and kids. I tried to tell them that I booked the limos and that we were going in an Escalade to tried and steer the conversation a little. My BF said to my other friend 'oh what are you going to do that night with your baby' They it went right back to baby talk.
I know this sounds selfish, but I really feel like I have no one to be excited about the wedding with. For all of my friends weddings ALL WE TALKED ABOUT was their weddings. I know everyone's in very different places now but I feel like im getting the short end of the stick. I can't bring this up to anyone b/c they will all feel bad and I don't want to hurt them. I know my BF having a baby is bigger than my wedding. But just needed to vent a little.
Im going for my hair and make up trial with Mia today and I have to go alone because no one can make it b/c of the kids. That's when this all hit me really.
I know there's nothing I can do about it. It just s*cks!!!!
thanks for listening girls.
wifetobe
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Posted by DnellD809
Yea it's a good thing for this website! You can talk about wedding wedding wedding and we're all so excited about it. It ***** sometimes that as people move on in their lives they forget that other people they care about are going through great experiences that they need their friends around for. Maybe talk to your BF and let her know that you feel kind of alone in the whole planning process. Babies and stuff are a big deal but YOUR wedding is a HUGE deal. They should be there for you and listen to every minor little detail just like you do for them. Talk to them...I'm sure it'll only help the way you're feeling!
the more I think about it and read all of the advise, maybe I will talk to her about it. She really emotional right now!! (baby hormones and all) :)
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I can't thank all of you enough for caring enough to write. It feels good!!!!
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Posted by debismom
Linda. if I lived close to you. I would go with you!!!! Do any LIW Brides live close, that they could help? Mary MOB
BTW this an extremly generous offer. Thank you. I would never put any of you out like that but it was an amazing offer!!!
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I totally understand how you feel, none of my friends are in the same place in life as me except for one who is getting married a month after me ( which is a whole other dynamic ) , and people tend to get rapped up in their own lives sometimes and don't realize that they are being a little selfish
