Im a sad lady tonight

Fh came over to say bye.....Bachelor Party starts tom in Miami with 22 guys..

not scared or worried about him being 'bad' more worried about his safety..

ever since we got engaged and esp after FMIL passed away suddenly I fear for his safety

*** he is having his bp so early because he is going into the FDNY academy the 21st and wont be able to go any other time ***

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Posted by MeaganAndJoeC

Fh came over to say bye.....Bachelor Party starts tom in Miami with 22 guys..

not scared or worried about him being 'bad' more worried about his safety..

ever since we got engaged and esp after FMIL passed away suddenly I fear for his safety

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OH I am totally with you on the safety issue. I'm like a paranoid nut-job since our engagement. Don't worry tho, out of 22 guys, at least one of them has to be responsible.
How long is he going for??

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Posted by NC1011

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Posted by MeaganAndJoeC

Fh came over to say bye.....Bachelor Party starts tom in Miami with 22 guys..

not scared or worried about him being 'bad' more worried about his safety..

ever since we got engaged and esp after FMIL passed away suddenly I fear for his safety

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OH I am totally with you on the safety issue. I'm like a paranoid nut-job since our engagement. Don't worry tho, out of 22 guys, at least one of them has to be responsible.
How long is he going for??

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wed-sun

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Posted by Snick n Nick

I'm sure he'll be fine....so early for a bachelor party! hope he has fun!!

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he goes into the FDNY academy the 21st until June.

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Posted by Ms Sawney

wow very early bachelor party he will be ok

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he will be in the FDNY acedmy until june

I'm sorry but I'm sure everything will be okay. I'm the same way- every since my dad's accident, I'm always afraid that people are going to go away and something bad will happen. But you can't think that way. I'm sure he will be just fine.

Do you mind me asking why he is having his bach party so early? you're not getting married until August, right?

awwww for you
i am sure he will be in good company, they are his guys, they will make sure he is just fine!!

i am starting to get the same way. yesterday i did not hear from FH all day which is totally not like him, i was almost in a panic by 7pm. all was well he just had a super busy day at work

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Posted by SoontobeMrsMc

I'm sorry but I'm sure everything will be okay. I'm the same way- every since my dad's accident, I'm always afraid that people are going to go away and something bad will happen. But you can't think that way. I'm sure he will be just fine.

Do you mind me asking why he is having his bach party so early? you're not getting married until August, right?

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no nont at all , he is going into the FDNY academy the 21st ... not done until july and then our wedding is in 3 weeks

aww dont worry!!! i'm sure he will be ok!! Make sure he checks in with you from time to time!

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Posted by SoontobeMrsMc

I'm sorry but I'm sure everything will be okay. I'm the same way- every since my dad's accident, I'm always afraid that people are going to go away and something bad will happen. But you can't think that way. I'm sure he will be just fine.

Do you mind me asking why he is having his bach party so early? you're not getting married until August, right?

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no nont at all , he is going into the FDNY academy the 21st ... not done until july and then our wedding is in 3 weeks

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Oh yeah! That makes perfect sense. You don't want to feel forced to have your bach party right before the wedding. Well, I'm sure he'll be ok. I know it stinks though. MY bach party is going to be home- just going out with the girls to dinner and what ever else but FH is going to vegas for 5 days!!!! AHHHH! lol So jealous of him!

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Posted by SoontobeMrsMc

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Posted by MeaganAndJoeC

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Posted by SoontobeMrsMc

I'm sorry but I'm sure everything will be okay. I'm the same way- every since my dad's accident, I'm always afraid that people are going to go away and something bad will happen. But you can't think that way. I'm sure he will be just fine.

Do you mind me asking why he is having his bach party so early? you're not getting married until August, right?

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no nont at all , he is going into the FDNY academy the 21st ... not done until july and then our wedding is in 3 weeks

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Oh yeah! That makes perfect sense. You don't want to feel forced to have your bach party right before the wedding. Well, I'm sure he'll be ok. I know it stinks though. MY bach party is going to be home- just going out with the girls to dinner and what ever else but FH is going to vegas for 5 days!!!! AHHHH! lol So jealous of him!

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mine is similar to yours.. why must they go all out ?

understandable that you might worry...i hope he enjoys himself and is safe

bump for anyone that might have some caring words to make me feel better

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Posted by Emily08

Aww, well I say don't worry and try to keep busy so that you don't think about it too much. Try to get together with friends or get some wedding stuff done... I'm sure the time will fly by and he'll be back before you know it!

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i agree.. im going to Vernon for ythe weeken one of my BMs have a condo there. I will be staying fr-sun hopefully that will help