I'm beginning to FREAK OUT!!!!!!!

soon2BMrsMcD Posted: Feb 10, 2008 10:34 AM

I'm beginning to FREAK OUT!!!!!!!

I've been pretty calm, cool, and collected about our wedding until just about YESTERDAY. I think it hit me that it's less than 5 months away. Don't get me wrong...I am soooooooo excited about marrying my best friend, but I am nervous about all the stupid wedding crap!!! Arghhhhhhhh!!! Oh yea, and it doesn't help that all my BMs are super hard to get in touch with!! We need to order the dresses and it's very hard to get 9 girls together at one time!!!

I really cannot wait for the HM

Smiley7092 Posted: Feb 10, 2008 10:49 AM

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Aww I'm sure we will all have moments like this at some point. Just take a step back and try to take a nice long deep breath. Everything will work out!

soon2BMrsMcD Posted: Feb 10, 2008 10:49 AM

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thanks!!

cammolax23 Posted: Feb 10, 2008 10:51 AM

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i lovvve your avatar!!! i used to collect those dam things all the time.. they were hysterical!

MsPotterhead Posted: Feb 10, 2008 10:53 AM

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I hear you, especially on the dresses thing, and I only have 5. I am going to go myself and pick something out and tell them to order it if none of them are available the next time I ask. Granted, noone is trying to be difficult-- I 'm sure its the same for you, but I really think getting all together at one time won't happen, so send an email of when you want to go shopping, and whoever is available will come -- you don't need all.
Good luck!

soon2BMrsMcD Posted: Feb 10, 2008 10:55 AM

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Posted by MsPotterhead

I hear you, especially on the dresses thing, and I only have 5. I am going to go myself and pick something out and tell them to order it if none of them are available the next time I ask. Granted, noone is trying to be difficult-- I 'm sure its the same for you, but I really think getting all together at one time won't happen, so send an email of when you want to go shopping, and whoever is available will come -- you don't need all.
Good luck!

Yeah, no one is deliberatly being difficult...

this is the price I pay for having 9 BMs. I knew the consequences. I COMPLETLY understand it's hard to get them all together...I just hope they get together for a shower!!! (is that selfish?)

soon2BMrsMcD Posted: Feb 10, 2008 10:56 AM

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Posted by cammolax23

i lovvve your avatar!!! i used to collect those dam things all the time.. they were hysterical!

I wish I still had all of them!!!!

alissa5517 Posted: Feb 10, 2008 10:57 AM

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Mine are super busy too and one lives oot. I brougth my sister and my FH's sister for the first pick and now I am setting up to bring them on different days when they can go. In a way it is a pain but at least they are getting ordered on time. HTH

queenbean Posted: Feb 10, 2008 11:06 AM

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Somehow everything will all come together. Think about it this way- it has to!

cammolax23 Posted: Feb 10, 2008 11:07 AM

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Posted by soon2BMrsMcD

Posted by cammolax23

i lovvve your avatar!!! i used to collect those dam things all the time.. they were hysterical!

I wish I still had all of them!!!!

do you know how much money they would be worth right now>> some dork would pay big bucks for them!!
and dont worry about the wedding stuff...everything will fall into place nicely...

soon2BMrsMcD Posted: Feb 10, 2008 11:15 AM

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Posted by queenbean

Somehow everything will all come together. Think about it this way- it has to!

true!!

Espo22 Posted: Feb 10, 2008 11:24 AM

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dont worry things will work out...I freaked out at about 5 months too and freaking out is what motivated to get the rest of the things done. Dont worry about the dress, i ordered at the end of january my bm dresses and theyre coming in april 7th-go to RK if anything bc it takes them 2 months average time to get the dress and many times even less. Pick a date to go look at dresses, send an email to your BM's. Those who cant make it well cant make it and just say its fine but to keep in mind that whoever doesnt go wont have a say in the dress and thats it, thats what i did.

anamaree77 Posted: Feb 10, 2008 11:29 AM

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I have 6 BM and that in itself was craziness trying to get everyone together. In the end, I just picked the BM dresses myself and am having them order it on their own time. Unfortunately, I had to enfoce a deadline ((by the end of this week)) because they have to send all the dresses out to get dyed in one batch. If they don't do it then they don't have a dress for the wedding...i'm not concerning myself with it anymore. If I mean as much to them as they mean to me, they'll get it done. Simple as that.

Don't worry. Just pick what you want and send out an email with what/when/where blah blah.

Also, I did RK too and have heard great feedback from them.

GOOD LUCK!

soon2BMrsMcD Posted: Feb 10, 2008 11:48 AM

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Thanks ladies!!! Two of my BMs already ordered the dress. The rest (keep your fingers crossed) can go next Fri!! Except of course for my cousin Jackie cause she's in WI!!