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Im confused....

bettybcafe Posted:

Im confused....

Ok..I understand how to address the outer envelope

but why do you need to address the inner envelope??? When you address the inner envelope you just write the person(s) address on the upper left hand corner of the envelope and your address goes in the middle??? is it necessary to address the inner envelope?
punkinedibride07 Posted:

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I think you are supposed to put the peoples names that you are invited on the inner envelope... not their address again. But I felt it was silly since their names are on the outer, so I just left the inner envelope blank.

Queensbebe Posted:

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I think the inner envelope is to put and guest if it is a plus one. The outer is just like mr jacob so and so...the inner is mr jacob so and so and guest, or however u want to write it, so that ure outter envelope address isnt really long. That's what I heard, but I don't think you NEED to address it. I think it just looks better to put the and guest in the inside rather than the outside. You don't put their addresses again tho, just their names. HTH

Christys0925 Posted:

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Most people say the outter envelope is more formal, just mr and mrs. The inner is basically where everyone who is invited goes. like mr and mrs and family. That's what the stationary store told me anyway.
Hope that helps
bettybcafe Posted:

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OOO I see! So for example...if I am invite John Doe and guest... this would appear on the upper left hand corner of the envelope but without the address..and my name and addy in the middle of the envelope??

Queensbebe Posted:

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I think all u need to write is my jacob whoever and guest right in the center...no addresses or anything else, on the inner that is!

Bride4Mike07 Posted:

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Usually the outer envelope says Mr & Mrs. Smith,
The Smiths and Ms. Smith (for single friends) so on...
The inner envelope would be addressed specifically for those people like:
Mr & Mrs.........
Ms. Smith and guest (if you're allowing single friends w/ guests, or if you don't know the name of the person)...you get the point....

On the inner envelope you would put the person's name like in the outter envelope. You address it to them, but do not write the address. You don't need to put your name on the left corner on the inner envelope. It's like when you have a Bday card, you address it to the person....same way, minus the address. Hope that helps.
bettybcafe Posted:

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Posted by Queensbebe

I think all u need to write is my jacob whoever and guest right in the center...no addresses or anything else, on the inner that is!

In the center??? but isnt that where my addy is suppose to be being that the RSVP is coming back to me???
Queensbebe Posted:

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Posted by bettybcafe


Posted by Queensbebe

I think all u need to write is my jacob whoever and guest right in the center...no addresses or anything else, on the inner that is!

In the center??? but isnt that where my addy is suppose to be being that the RSVP is coming back to me???


I don't think so because ure addy should be on the response envelope, it doesn't need to be on the inner as well.
Bride4Mike07 Posted:

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Inner envelope and RSVP envelope are two different things....
Your RSVP envelopes have your names and address to have them returned to you.....
bettybcafe Posted:

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Posted by Queensbebe


Posted by bettybcafe


Posted by Queensbebe

I think all u need to write is my jacob whoever and guest right in the center...no addresses or anything else, on the inner that is!

In the center??? but isnt that where my addy is suppose to be being that the RSVP is coming back to me???


I don't think so because ure addy should be on the response envelope, it doesn't need to be on the inner as well.

Wiat...now Im really confused

Ok so we have the outer envelope...and then the inner envelope with the RSVP card..right? what is the difference between the response envelope and the inner envelope??
Bride4Mike07 Posted:

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OK..... I'm going to FM you a pic.....

bettybcafe Posted:

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Posted by Bride4Mike07

Inner envelope and RSVP envelope are two different things....
Your RSVP envelopes have your names and address to have them returned to you.....

OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO I think I get it! So aside from the outer envelope then there is ANOTHER envelope within that where the invite, RSVP card and RSVP envelope goes?? and THEN there is the RSVP envelope?? Is that correct?
Queensbebe Posted:

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haha ok..so there is the outer envelope with ure guest's addy. then when u open the envelope, ure actual invite is encased in ANOTHER envelope, where u put mr smith and guest, or something more casual if u wish. Then inside that envelope is ure invite with ure RSVP card and a smaller envelope. The inner envelope just encases the invite to make it look neater and so u can throw out the outer which usually gets ruined in the mail. Is that more clear?

bettybcafe Posted:

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Posted by Bride4Mike07

OK..... I'm going to FM you a pic.....

HAHA thanks! I am DIY my own invites...and my invite package brought outer envelopes, the invites, RSVP envelope, and the RSVP cards..I guess it didnt bring the inner envelope..
bettybcafe Posted:

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Posted by Queensbebe

haha ok..so there is the outer envelope with ure guest's addy. then when u open the envelope, ure actual invite is encased in ANOTHER envelope, where u put mr smith and guest, or something more casual if u wish. Then inside that envelope is ure invite with ure RSVP card and a smaller envelope. The inner envelope just encases the invite to make it look neater and so u can throw out the outer which usually gets ruined in the mail. Is that more clear?

Yep. perfectly clear..thanks! I guess we wont be doing the inner envelope..because my DIY didnt bring them...
Queensbebe Posted:

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Posted by bettybcafe


Posted by Bride4Mike07

OK..... I'm going to FM you a pic.....

HAHA thanks! I am DIY my own invites...and my invite package brought outer envelopes, the invites, RSVP envelope, and the RSVP cards..I guess it didnt bring the inner envelope..

the inner envelope is optional haha...I had no idea either, I emailed Ashley from Smashing Cards to ask her, so don't feel bad!
GettinHutched Posted:

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Since I didn't have inner envelopes, I went googling and found this site- and I bet it will help you out too! Explains the etiquette of outer/inner envelopes and stuff....website
bettybcafe Posted:

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Posted by GettinHutched

Since I didn't have inner envelopes, I went googling and found this site- and I bet it will help you out too! Explains the etiquette of outer/inner envelopes and stuff....website

Thanks!

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