I'm getting married in almost 4 days and vendors are ruining my excitement

RobbsWifey Posted: Jun 25, 2007 07:16 PM

I'm getting married in almost 4 days and vendors are ruining my excitement

I have had it with vendors! If it's not one, it's another lately. I'm leaving my house to get ready for my wedding on Friday and I STILL haven't received my HM vouchers, which my travel agent reassures me is okay. He's gotten the second half of my HM vouchers, just not the first half. Apparantely the aweful vendor they used mailed out the doc's June 15th from Vegas using regular mail and no tracking number! Now I think I'm going to have to travel the 30-40 mins to the TA's office to pick up what they already have tomorrow, which makes me livid! Am I being unreasonable to be so mad and freaked out about this with my wedding in a few days???
On top of that, my MC calls me today to tell me he might not be able to do my wedding b/c of an earlier wedding that day and recommended some random MC I never heard of. How do you tell me that 5 days (not even now) before my wedding?!?!? After a long talk, he reassured me that he would be there, but how can I trust that he'll show up? I just want to cry from the stress of it all.

MrsB2BE Posted: Jun 25, 2007 07:20 PM

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wilmetted Posted: Jun 25, 2007 07:22 PM

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So sorry to hear that. It will all work out.

milana Posted: Jun 25, 2007 07:26 PM

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im sorry youre going through this date twin but dont worry everything will work itself out!

Lissy3077 Posted: Jun 25, 2007 07:39 PM

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don't worry amy, everything will work out just fine.. i'll see u on saturday, and you are going to be just great!!!

shelby34 Posted: Jun 25, 2007 07:54 PM

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PLEASE don't let this ruin your planning and your day. Trust me, this is the most exciting time and you need to savor every moment. Don't let these people distract you from the good stuff.
It will all work out in the end. My DJ messed up a whole bunch of stuff and I started to get mad, but in the end I enjoyed my wedding and so did everyone else.
Just take a deep breath and enjoy the good stuff!!!

portjeffbride Posted: Jun 25, 2007 07:59 PM

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Don't stress! Worrying about all the vendors will strip you of having a good time at your wedding. don't let them have that power!!!!

Deal with the travel agent (or maybe ask a family member to pick it up) and that's it.

the MC is the one who may be a no-show? The DJ is fine though, right? If it's only the MC, I hate to say it, but he's not really necessary anyway. As long as music is playing, all will be well. when you return from the HM, slam him with a horrible review!!!

the wedding goes by so quickly.... try to delegate stuff so you can focus on what's important.... and most of all, enjoy yourself!

ErinC0119 Posted: Jun 25, 2007 08:36 PM

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Bride2B7707 Posted: Jun 25, 2007 08:50 PM

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Take a deep breath, everything will work out in the end!

khofmann Posted: Jun 25, 2007 10:48 PM

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I hope everything works out...

PegaLega Posted: Jun 25, 2007 11:12 PM

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Im sorry that this is happening to you with only a few days left. DO NOT let it ruin the last few days you have! As far as your HM-have someone else pick them up!!! And the MC really-YES you hired him-YES you paid for him-but if he is a no show or is late you still have your DJ! ANd it will be fine