I'm hugging my FH just a lil bit tighter from now on...

Original post by kurlss82

Aug 01, 2011 08:55 PM

One of my FH childhood friend who was also one of our groomsmen was killed on Saturday from a motorcycle accident.

I know I don't write much on this site but I just need to share that I'm hurting so bad and that I wish I could take some of the pain away from FH. During this whole wedding process, everything has been running smooth, thank God... the only part I've had issues with is the bridal party... and this guy was one of the few who was just soooo excited for our wedding and soooo honored to be in it. And I can't believe that he is gone. Every time I would picture my wedding and the bridal party walking in I always saw his face, his smile, getting the party started.
We want to honor him the day of our wedding somehow. I'm open to any ideas if you girls have any. I was also thinking about getting a boutonniere for viewing at the funeral. What do u guys think?

leesah85 Posted: Aug 02, 2011 09:45 AM

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Posted by chreesta

I'm so sorry for your loss. I like the idea of having a memorial candle and putting out pictures.

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

im so sorry to hear about your loss i can't imagine what you're going through right now

i like this idea of having a candle and putting out pictures

you might want to honor of of his family members at your wedding tooo - were they also invited?

praying for you during this difficult time

FDNYwife1029 Posted: Aug 02, 2011 09:48 AM

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so sorry for your loss, prayers for you, your FH & GM family....

MandMwedding Posted: Aug 02, 2011 09:51 AM

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Sorry for your loss.

chris1082 Posted: Aug 02, 2011 10:23 AM

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I'm so sorry to hear this

SoonToBeMrsFox Posted: Aug 02, 2011 10:29 AM

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so sorry for your loss

itbroi805 Posted: Aug 02, 2011 10:30 AM

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so sorry for your loss

Kaotica Posted: Aug 02, 2011 10:34 AM

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So sorry to hear about your loss! You can maybe light a candle w/ a pic at the reception. How tragic

I think I saw the accident, did this happen in Forest Hills?

jovigirl414 Posted: Aug 02, 2011 10:49 AM

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OMG, I am so sorry ... hearing things like this make me so glad FH sold his bike - he's already been thrown off of one in an accident.

to you and your FH during this difficult time

VCanizalez Posted: Aug 02, 2011 10:49 AM

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O M G

So sorry....

Memory Candle...

kurlss82 Posted: Aug 02, 2011 10:55 AM

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Yes, this happened in Forest Hills.... On Union Turnpike. We got to the scene of the accident about half hour after it happened and we were there most of the night. They had his body there for about 3 hours...

Kaotica Posted: Aug 02, 2011 10:57 AM

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Posted by kurlss82

Yes, this happened in Forest Hills.... On Union Turnpike. We got to the scene of the accident about half hour after it happened and we were there most of the night. They had his body there for about 3 hours...

So terribly sorry! Yes, that was the accident that we saw, my friends actually saw it minutes after it had happened and heard the firetrucks coming. . . .

sending my condolences your way.

kurlss82 Posted: Aug 02, 2011 10:58 AM

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Thank you sooooo much ladies. It is very comforting to read the kind words. I will most definitely do the memorial candle for him at the wedding. Thank u!

kurlss82 Posted: Aug 02, 2011 11:05 AM

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Posted by Kaotica

Posted by kurlss82

Yes, this happened in Forest Hills.... On Union Turnpike. We got to the scene of the accident about half hour after it happened and we were there most of the night. They had his body there for about 3 hours...

So terribly sorry! Yes, that was the accident that we saw, my friends actually saw it minutes after it had happened and heard the firetrucks coming. . . .

sending my condolences your way.

oh wow... yeah it was a very tragic scene. Thank u.

rosatemp Posted: Aug 02, 2011 11:11 AM

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Posted by jovigirl414

OMG, I am so sorry ... hearing things like this make me so glad FH sold his bike - he's already been thrown off of one in an accident.

to you and your FH during this difficult time

i lost my cousin cause of this...i was 12 and very close to him so bikes arent my friend...i hate them

macetona1 Posted: Aug 02, 2011 03:57 PM

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I am so sorry for your loss

FutureMRS.Benn Posted: Aug 02, 2011 03:58 PM

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So sorry for your loss!!!

LATOYA Posted: Aug 02, 2011 08:26 PM

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I'm so sorry for your loss. I agree with the ladies a nice picture and candle for his remembrance would be nice. My prayers and condolences to u and your family.