I'm hugging my FH just a lil bit tighter from now on...

kurlss82 Posted: Aug 01, 2011 08:55 PM

I'm hugging my FH just a lil bit tighter from now on...

One of my FH childhood friend who was also one of our groomsmen was killed on Saturday from a motorcycle accident.

I know I don't write much on this site but I just need to share that I'm hurting so bad and that I wish I could take some of the pain away from FH. During this whole wedding process, everything has been running smooth, thank God... the only part I've had issues with is the bridal party... and this guy was one of the few who was just soooo excited for our wedding and soooo honored to be in it. And I can't believe that he is gone. Every time I would picture my wedding and the bridal party walking in I always saw his face, his smile, getting the party started.
We want to honor him the day of our wedding somehow. I'm open to any ideas if you girls have any. I was also thinking about getting a boutonniere for viewing at the funeral. What do u guys think?

IrishAli Posted: Aug 01, 2011 08:57 PM

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That is so sad. I am so sorry for you guys

Could you have a memorial candle for him at the reception and a few photos of everyone together?

lgab21 Posted: Aug 01, 2011 09:05 PM

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That is the worst news. I am so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine going through anything like that. :(

kurlss82 Posted: Aug 01, 2011 09:06 PM

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Thank you... yeah that sounds like a good idea. We just want to honor him on that day. Thank u.

Angel120905 Posted: Aug 01, 2011 09:11 PM

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you and your FH are in my prayers... Im very sorry for your loss

kurlss82 Posted: Aug 01, 2011 09:17 PM

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Thank u ladies.

I don't know how we are getting thru it but we r.... last time FH spoke to him was to let him know that on Aug 20th, they were going to get fitted for tux... he was so excited about it that he told FH i'll give u the money now if u want lol
AARRGGHHHH this hurts so bad!!! I'm trying to be strong for my love but I'm just as heartbroken.

Nrauch8191 Posted: Aug 01, 2011 09:28 PM

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I am so sorry to hear this.... stay strong!!

chreesta Posted: Aug 01, 2011 09:30 PM

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I'm so sorry for your loss. I like the idea of having a memorial candle and putting out pictures.

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

spdy540 Posted: Aug 01, 2011 10:05 PM

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so sorry to hear that.

JTG4EVER Posted: Aug 01, 2011 10:08 PM

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I'm so sorry hun

Prayers for his friends and family

Ang9483 Posted: Aug 01, 2011 10:21 PM

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I am so sorry to hear that.

CroatianBride Posted: Aug 01, 2011 10:25 PM

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OMG I am so sorry for your loss

You guys and his family will be in my prayers tonight

lisam1113 Posted: Aug 01, 2011 11:47 PM

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Stay strong & I'm so sorry to hear that!! I'm doing a memorial candle & having pictures of loved ones that passed. I'm not making a huge thing out of it to make anyone too upset/emotional.

pjc92980 Posted: Aug 02, 2011 08:37 AM

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oh no i am sorry for your loss

Richiesgirl Posted: Aug 02, 2011 08:58 AM

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I am SO SO SO sorry to hear about your loss. Are you ahve a video montage? Would it be too much to let a picture of him through your slideshow? Maybe a memorial candle with a picture in a frame on the side? Maybe a dedicated song?

rosatemp Posted: Aug 02, 2011 09:02 AM

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i am so sorry for your loss...that is so sad...do you have tv's at the wedding if so id do a lil slide show of him for like 3mins or something...gl and again so sorry for your loss

kshea23 Posted: Aug 02, 2011 09:03 AM

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O wow, I'm so sorry for your loss

DreamyD Posted: Aug 02, 2011 09:09 AM

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OMG
Marc and I passed a motorcycle accident on the road the other day- and we literally couldn't shake the horror that was all through us.

I am SO very sorry that you're going through this.
It's terrible.