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Im in need of help here!

Two Peas Posted:

Im in need of help here!

So I am an elementary school teacher and ALL of my adorable 4th graders are dying to come and see me get married. The thing is Im getting married at the reception hall...SO I decided to draft a letter to let the families of these children know they are more than welcome to come but have to leave after the ceremony...and well that's where my dilema comes in...I cannot figure out how to word telling them they have to leave after the ceremony. I certainly don't want to be rude or harsh in my letter, but I need them to understand that my cocktail hour is starting right after the ceremony and so they need to leave....Any thoughts on how to do this???

Soon2BMrsD Posted:

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what about saying coming to ceremony then ADULT cocktail hour following.. makes it clear that the students are not involved.. and your def. not inviting the parents.. address it to the student so the parents know their not invited to the adult cocktail hour!

Two Peas Posted:

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It is just so tricky....I need to get it done by tomorrow/Monday the latest

Soon2BMrsD Posted:

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What if you specifically write.. Invitation to Ceremony...blah blah blah

Wifeynella Posted:

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I'd do both of thee above... including the start and end time.

You are cordially invited to
Ms. Doe's wedding ceremony!

Date
1pm-2pm
Place
Two Peas Posted:

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Posted by Soon2BMrsD

What if you specifically write.. Invitation to Ceremony...blah blah blah




I think that's a good idea....And make it more of an actual invite instead of a letter!
anneandchris Posted:

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I know they would love to see you get married, BUT could you draft a letter saying that as much as you would love to have them their you can't due to its location? And you will be happy to share pictures?

Two Peas Posted:

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Posted by BklynBride2Be

I'd do both of thee above... including the start and end time.

You are cordially invited to
Ms. Doe's wedding ceremony!

Date
1pm-2pm
Place



That is also a great idea!
Soon2BMrsD Posted:

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make it on word with a cute border and print it out like a flyer but more of an invite layout and give the time.. 1pm-130pm... that way they get the point and make sure it says.. Ceremony invite! i think thats fine.. most of the parents will know they are not invited to the reception. but for those who are a little.. duh duh it makes it clear and very tactful

Two Peas Posted:

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Posted by anneandchris

I know they would love to see you get married, BUT could you draft a letter saying that as much as you would love to have them their you can't due to its location? And you will be happy to share pictures?




I really do want them there...but thanks anyway!
Two Peas Posted:

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I think that's what Im going to do....make an invitation with specific times and information...that should work!

Two Peas Posted:

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I think that's what Im going to do....make an invitation with specific times and information...that should work!

ldrenckhahn Posted:

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Maybe one of the talented ladies on here could come up with a cute little people about the reception being adults only?

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