But how many of you, when you RSVP NO for a wedding actually send money or a gift when you RSVP no? (Given it's not a close family member or friend).
I was just curious because I never knew this until I started wedding planning and now I feel bad I never knew this and was wondering how many of us really do this.... (if that makes sense... LOL)
GaneshTara
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yea, I got what you're saying... I think it depends on the guest?
If it's your mother's co-worker's girlfriend, I don't think they would send a gift even if they RSVP 'no.'
I personally would send a gift depending on my relationship with the b/g.
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yea, I got what you're saying... I think it depends on the guest?
If it's your mother's co-worker's girlfriend, I don't think they would send a gift even if they RSVP 'no.'
I personally would send a gift depending on my relationship with the b/g.
Ohh definitely... I meant if it's not a close family member or friend because then I would definitely be there....
GaneshTara
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Ohh definitely... I meant if it's not a close family member or friend because then I would definitely be there....
No.. wat i meant was.. even if you couldn't make it, and they were close to you, then you would def. send a gift. But, i think, if you couldn't make it and they aren't so close to you, then you wouldn't send anything.
tracie143
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if it is a close friend or family member I always do.
Soon2BeMrs2006
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if its someone close definitely do send a gift. if not, maybe a card to say congrats, but gift isnt necessary
july06bride
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an old friend got married and i didnt go to wedding, i dont even know why i was invited to be honest...i didnt send $$ with RSVP but I plan to this week sometime actually..she got married in aug. So, a small gesture i guess
conigs25
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If Im invited to a wedding and cant attend, I send a check along w/ the RSVP or i will send it after the wedding
mariela2006
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i agree with everyone else it depends on the relationship.
evnme
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i usually send a gift, but i dont spend as much as i would if i were attending.
LovelyChas
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i agree with everyone else it depends on the relationship.
me too
ChrissynRicky
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i agree with everyone else it depends on the relationship.
me too
Likewise, if we're close with the couple of bride/groom, we send a gift off their registry to their house.
Otherwise, nothing.
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I sent no money when I RSVP's to my coworkers daughter, but I got something off her registry and gave it to her mom. BTW, 5 months later..no thank you note.
