I've been driving myself crazy thinking about all the little things that still needs to be done for the wedding and i still have four months to go! It has gotten me to the point that i lose sleep could you imagine when it comes close to the date! Please tell me I'm not the only one LOL.
cdh2672
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You are not alone!! That is about when I got crazy, right after Xmas (my wedding was in April). It is true that it all comes together! Don't worry...make lists, and ask others for help if you need to, that helped me
tara5533
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Trust me you are not alone I feel overwhelmed by the little crap that if I forget anything than oh well who cares thats hoe I feel
soon to be Mrs Arias
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No you are not alone. I'm 6.5 months away and i feel the same way
PSP
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You are not the only one. I have less than a month and am in a general tense mood at the moment. I'm not putting up with anyone's B.S. at the moment. LOL
I think people are scared since I usually am laid back and let people get away with the small things, but not right now. I'm being a bit firm... but in a not mean way according to the FI. The sh*t I want done is getting done.
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The details were freaking me out...now its just laughable. I have no time between work and school so whatever gets done gets done. The two things I have to do are work on my wedding ceremony and get a marriage license...the rest is for the birds!
STorres519
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thanks ladies! Hopefully i can keep my mind distracted with other things! There should be a pill for wedding stress! LMAO
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The details were freaking me out...now its just laughable. I have no time between work and school so whatever gets done gets done. The two things I have to do are work on my wedding ceremony and get a marriage license...the rest is for the birds!
pixietina
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It's a wild roller coaster. I was a nervous wreck then like a month before the wedding nothing was going on and then it go crazy again with vendor meetings. It will be all ok!
renrico
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ahhh i totally understand...there is so much to do and no time to do it in. I should have been engaged longer so I would have the time to plan. It's killing me. Not only am I trying to figure this all out, but we are still trying to find a place to live and I am job hunting as well. SOOOOO stressed out!!!!
jf418
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crashing but im doing this already too!
futurearias
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crashing but im doing this already too!
there's just really so many details involved. but list making always works for me
linda_art
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when you get to the 3mth mark buy a notebook strictly for wedding lists if you don't have one. For the 3rd month make a list of what needs to be accomplished that month, for the next mth list whatever could be carried over from the third that you couldn't do. Ask for help. Reach out to friends/bridal party and book dates with ppl for them to come and help you with things... Plan ahead as it is summer and our weddings aren't on the top of pals list. lol... The last month break down into four weeks and for each list write the things you need accomplished and write the things into the next week that you know you have the leeway to carry over. Trust me, this works. For the day of have contracts printed up, have any photos printed up of your hair and makeup trial, etc. and breathe!