I just wanted to say that on my wedding day, I didn't even notice my flowers until I saw pictures, I could care less that the DJ played the wrong song for me to walk down the aisle to, it didn't matter that my MOH's shoes were totally didn't match her tea length gown. Plus, no one noticed that my flower girls and jr. bridesmaids had their dresses hanging onto their bodies by about 30 safety pins( done 1 hr. prior to walking down the aisle) bc my aunt never took them to get tailored....
Enjoy your day, it flies past you so fast, you almost don't have time to absorb it, so...
don't get caught up in details. They simply don't matter. Things will go wrong and you will deal with it.
Your day ends up not being about your wedding at all, but about your marriage. That is the part that stays with you and will make you happy every day for the rest of your life.
MrsQ-in2007
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Congratulations!
kat107
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Congrats!! You are so right, even the stuff I managed to notice 5 months ago has faded into oblivion at this point. Concentrate on building a life and a marriage, the details of the party will not matter in the end!
GraceAndAdam
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awww, congrats and thanks for the advice!
GettinHutched
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CONGRATS!!! Well said!
BlushingBride714
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Congrats! Thanks for the words of wisdom - sometimes the big picture gets a little blurry with all the details in the way.
PamR17
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Thanks for your advice! Congrats!!
diva7531
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Congrats, glad you had a good time and didn't stress the details!
kns11
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Congrats on being Mr. & Mrs!!!! Your last 2 lines say it all!!!!! Thank you
MyLobster
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Great point! Thanks and congrats!
snowcat
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that was beautiful! congratulations!
B22
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GREAT advice.... thank you so much!
and congratualtions!
Strings22
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CONGRATS!!!!! and thank you so much for your advise...I have been dealing with issues with vendors and etc... this is something I really needed to hear to calm my stress thank you
amytee
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AWH
shelby34
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well said! I totally agree!!!
Mrs. V 2008
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great advice!!!!!!!!!! thanks!!!
milana
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COngrats to you both! And thanks for the advice
Heather11207
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Wow, you just made me cry! Everything you wrote is so true! Congrats to you!
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Nicole622
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congrats!!!! very well said..
FuTuRe MrS MaZz
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Aww.. I got all teary-eyed for that last part!!! Well-said though... Great advice
