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Posted by Songstress1212
Posted by kimNanthony
Posted by Songstress1212
I just spoke to FH and he said he doesnt want to see me before the ceremony. I think thats our final answer.![]()
Haha yea Fh said no way also when I suggested it. Do what you feel comfortable with![]()
Yeah most of the time I dont care what he thinks but this time Ill listen to him![]()
I think whichever decision you make- it will still somehow work out in your favor. If you decide to take pictures together afterwards you said your photographer is amazing & fast I'm sure he will get it done without cutting into anything else- also if you end up taking the pics together before the ceremony your FH is going to be swept away no matter what and will see be swept away again seeing you walk down that aisle
I do have a gap, so we will not be missing CH--but def have the photographer take as many as he can before the ceremony, that way it will really just be the 2 of you after, and maybe you can tell them that you don't want to miss CH and they can think of a way that you can make even half of it
Posted by mariaobride
I think whichever decision you make- it will still somehow work out in your favor. If you decide to take pictures together afterwards you said your photographer is amazing & fast I'm sure he will get it done without cutting into anything else- also if you end up taking the pics together before the ceremony your FH is going to be swept away no matter what and will see be swept away again seeing you walk down that aisle
Posted by Future Mulligan
Posted by mariaobride
I think whichever decision you make- it will still somehow work out in your favor. If you decide to take pictures together afterwards you said your photographer is amazing & fast I'm sure he will get it done without cutting into anything else- also if you end up taking the pics together before the ceremony your FH is going to be swept away no matter what and will see be swept away again seeing you walk down that aisle
i agree - you should do what you feel more comfortable doing....we wanted to have time to take as many pictures as possible and we want to enjoy our cocktail hour and reception without being pulled for pictures so we decided that seeing eachother before the ceremony was ok....FH also saw me try on dresses too so i guess we are very untraditional![]()
but do what feels right for the both of you.....it will be fine either way!
Posted by Future Mulligan
Posted by mariaobride
I think whichever decision you make- it will still somehow work out in your favor. If you decide to take pictures together afterwards you said your photographer is amazing & fast I'm sure he will get it done without cutting into anything else- also if you end up taking the pics together before the ceremony your FH is going to be swept away no matter what and will see be swept away again seeing you walk down that aisle
i agree - you should do what you feel more comfortable doing....we wanted to have time to take as many pictures as possible and we want to enjoy our cocktail hour and reception without being pulled for pictures so we decided that seeing eachother before the ceremony was ok....FH also saw me try on dresses too so i guess we are very untraditional![]()
but do what feels right for the both of you.....it will be fine either way!
Posted by Songstress1212
After lots and lots of thinking about whether I would be comfortable seeing FH before the ceremony, I thought I convinced myself to be okay with it. But IM NOT! After reading Fall Bride's post about the gripefest (one of the guests said it was anticlimactic when the bride came down the aisle) I dont know anymore
My ceremony is at the RH and we dont have a gap and I know if we dont take pics before, well miss the cocktail hour and force our bridal party to miss out on some of it too. But my dream was always to be seen for the first time on the aisle. WHAT SHOULD I DO?! Maybe I can have my photographer take pics with the bridal party and parents before and then FH and I will take the pics after the ceremony. Thomas Paul is so quick, so maybe it wont be a problem.
Posted by MiciB115
Posted by Songstress1212
After lots and lots of thinking about whether I would be comfortable seeing FH before the ceremony, I thought I convinced myself to be okay with it. But IM NOT! After reading Fall Bride's post about the gripefest (one of the guests said it was anticlimactic when the bride came down the aisle) I dont know anymore
My ceremony is at the RH and we dont have a gap and I know if we dont take pics before, well miss the cocktail hour and force our bridal party to miss out on some of it too. But my dream was always to be seen for the first time on the aisle. WHAT SHOULD I DO?! Maybe I can have my photographer take pics with the bridal party and parents before and then FH and I will take the pics after the ceremony. Thomas Paul is so quick, so maybe it wont be a problem.
That's a good idea. Talk to TP to see what he suggests.
sorry to crash, but the halls I am looking at have photo studios, would it be possible to get the groom and grooms men shots and the bride and bridesmaid shots done before the ceremony, separate from where teh guests are, so it limits the shots the bridal party is in during the CH, and also limits the shots needed for you and FH before you can join the cocktail hour?
Posted by eternitybride
sorry to crash, but the halls I am looking at have photo studios, would it be possible to get the groom and grooms men shots and the bride and bridesmaid shots done before the ceremony, separate from where teh guests are, so it limits the shots the bridal party is in during the CH, and also limits the shots needed for you and FH before you can join the cocktail hour?
Im in the same situation i dont want to be seen before the ceremony and we're getting married at the RH i talked to TP about it and he said hed get all the pics with me and my girls done befoer the ceremony and the same for the guys then its just the quick shots of us all together he said we'd miss about 20 mins of the cocktail hour s no worries! just talk it over with tom
JT I dont believe does, but it should be large enough to get FH out of the way, or he is taking pictures outside while you are in the lobby, or he is in the upstairs ceremony room, while you take pictures in the lobby or outside on the bridge (thinking of where I saw when I went there)
