I'm really annoyed-Bridal Shower scoop......................

I know that my Shower is Saturday. I didn't want to be surprised. I'm grown I have my own business and a baby. I'm not into being surprised. I'm just happy to even have a shower. I don't have alot of friends anymore. Some grew apart others jealous, others just not positive. I just feel like i don't want to be bothered now with this shower. My MOH was totally ignored by my sister and cousin(BM'S) for planning Why? She knows me best. MY MOH tells me they are inviting kids. I don't see any items except two things off my registry. The two other good friends that I do have they can't seem to contact them. One of them lives down the street from my mother. Walk to her house darn it! They try to surprise me, but it always blows up in their faces. To invite kids is ridiculous. I run a Daycare I'm a mother and a future step mother I love em. But the baker does get sick of cake sometimes No offense. Anyway if it is supposed to be my Shower.Why is it being done this way? With out input from my MOH?
You should see my hair and nails. If I didn't find out. I would show up looking like. Something the cat dragged in. Come on I'm trying save on beauty treatments because in a few eeks I'll be paying for big hair permanent french manicure etc etc. I know I'm whining. But who else can I whine to. Thanks needed to vent

They're probably just throwing you off