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Michi9506 Posted:

im scared

Ok so we have the date for our wedding set at the church, but they havent contacted us about anything yet!! I'm starting to get nervous. We have pre-cana the 21st but we have so many questions like do we getr musicians or do they have a pianist..little things..should i be worried

bettybcafe Posted:

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Why dont you ask them all those questions on the 21st??

woobie113007 Posted:

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I wouldnt worry. After your done with pre cana i think you call the church and then discuss a time to get together to let them know what reading you chose or something?
Im not sure how it works but I wouldnt be worried!!!
HollyMac Posted:

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You should contact them so you don't have to worry

JTEC02 Posted:

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I callec my chiurch and they said they won't be sending us anything until 6 weeks before wedding. I was getting nervous too!

HenryAlba07 Posted:

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You should call them. They usually don't call you.

GL
poogie Posted:

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okay can you call the church? there has to be someone there during the day to answer your ?'s

StarryEyedBride Posted:

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Give them a call! Put your mind at rest... also, you can ask them everything at pre-cana.

kris01 Posted:

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I would not worry!. after we scheduled our church we didn't hear from them until we got a letter telling us about pre-cana. they will more than likely go over all the logistics stuff in pre-cana.
rkl1130 Posted:

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Posted by kris01

I would not worry!. after we scheduled our church we didn't hear from them until we got a letter telling us about pre-cana. they will more than likely go over all the logistics stuff in pre-cana.



Same here!

They gave us a packet of all the names and numbers we needed and things we can do and not do. If it makes you feel better, you can call them up.
KRISTYRUSSELL Posted:

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CALL THE PLACE YOU ARE GETTING MARRIED AT AND JUST ASK THEM, BUT RELAX, ALL WILL FALL INTO PLACE, I THINK MANY OF US FELT THAT WAY, AT PRE CANA, THEY TELL YOU NOTHING AT ALL ABOUT ANY OF THAT, WHY YOU ASK, WE ARE ALL TRYING TO FIGURE THAT OUT, NOTHING ABOUT WHAT YOU CAN AND CAN THROW OUTSIDE THE CHURCH, NOTHING ABOUT UNITY CANDLE REGULATIONS AND WHEN YOU ARE TO BRING ALL THAT STUFF, SO ALL IN ALL ITS UP TO YOU TO FIND THAT OUT BY CALLING, SOMETIMES BRIEF INFO IS LISTED IN THE PRECANA BOOKLET THEY GAVE YOU, BUT IF ITS THERE ITS PROBABLY A BIT BASIC.. KEEP IN MIND PRICES FOR MUSIC AND IF YOU USE AN OUTSIDE MUSICIAN AT YOUR CHURCH OR PLACE OF WORSHIP, ADDITIONAL FEES USUALLY APPLY JUST FOR THEM TO WORK WITH THE ONES YOU HAVE TO USE. ......JUST KEEP THAT IN MIND....

soon2bmrsdunn Posted:

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I would wait until after precana and make an appointment to hand in the certificate and discuss all the questions you have. Don't be worried.

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