It's days past our RSVP date for our e-party and there are still so many people that didn't respond! Why do people wait so long to call?!?! And to boot there's at least 6-8 people (from both sides) that are telling us maybe they can come! I am so busy with school and planning this party (we're cooking all the food) I wanted to make the place settings early and know my final head count. Plus we have to pay the balance in like five days! This is so frustrating!!!
CNC4eva3402
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People honestly just don't get how stressful it can be..and that we need their replies in order to move on with our planning...
little34
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I know what you are feeling..the same thing happened to us for our e-party...get on the phone and tell them you need to know right now. It is a pain and you shouldnt have to track adults down....but be the thorn in their side because they are doing it to you!!! Darn people!
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i know where you are coming from for our E-party we didnt get rsvps back intil a week later or we would hear from so one else that the person is coming or not. It got me mad then what the party happened we had 75 there was only 50 most didnt show....
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Yeah I know it is very frustrating. For my graduation party we also needed a head count and people were being lazy on the RSVPs so my mother got on the phone and demanded an answer because its not fair that you have to pay all this money for them not to tell u if they are coming or not. I would seriously get on the phone and demand an answer.
novia26
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People are lazy and inconsiderate thats why !!!
tinadansr
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Grrr... people Call them and say i need to know if your coming and if your answer is maybe then NO FOOD FOR YOU!
MzHopesAlot
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It happens so often and stinks. People really dont understand how important the RSVPs are!
TnJ041809
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I know exactly how you are feeling my e-party is next week and we are still having a hard time finding out who exactly is coming and who isn't. I had my rsvp's due on 9/8 and just yesterday 6 people rsvp'd!! So i don't know how to help you b/c we've already ordered our catering and I have feeling we aren't going to order enough! My FMIL isn't helping the situation either I heard her telling someone it's okay if they just come that day. So I wish you better luck with your e-party then what I'm having.
SOTHISISLOVE53109
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I know how you feel...I had 30 people that never responsed and then showed up...talk about aggravating...have the decency to make a phone call!! Your engagement party will be wonderful don't stress over the little stuff...if they come great, if they don't oh well - but a phone call still would be nice
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Thank you all for everything you said - we have been calling all week and so far two families haven't bothered to call us back and the rest - no joke told us they just cant commit to it yet. What the h*** is that?!?! This s*****.
