Anyone get to this point in planning or with FH that im just so fed up and upset....im down in FL, i dont have ANYONE here to help me, FH is USELESS and anytime i mention anything with the wedding its ya..uh huh...okay. I mean, i showed him this picture of a ring i thought he was looking for, he said yea thats what he wanted. So i searched all over found a place the carried it and we drive to the mall only for him to say he didnt want to look at it, he already found one he was going to use he freaked out cuz i put my drink down on his desk like 3 feet from his computer and i freaked when he put his by the invites and i can get yelled at for asking him to move it!!
I FEEL LIKE IM ALL ALONE!! Im so frusterated! I just want an FH who atleast acts like he wants to get married to me!!
he wont even dance with me!
UGH vent over for now i suppose :( :( :(
sorry girls
Sad08Bride
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Do you want to use my Sad08bride account for this?
I understand! My FH's participation in the wedding planning process is going to be showing up on time.
mrsjpc3
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Iam in FL too!!! And planning alone too. His only responsibility was to plan the honeymoon, which he did, and its done.
As far as anything else, he is leaving it up to me. He never really asks whats going on with the planning, he doesnt really have any input, it's 'whatever you like, I trust your taste'. but it I agree, it would nice for him to at least feign an interest!!!!
bigrd37
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you are not alone. FH does nothing, unless i ask him a question or for his opinion, and even then it's like pulling teeth or god only knows what i'm asking him!
i told him last week that he needs to do the research for the tuxes. he looked at me and said well who else would do it? I said, ME. what do you mean who else? i've done everything for this wedding. why would i expect him to do something now without being asked. i think he might call, but he hasn't as of yet.
diva7531
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I am so sorry that you are going thru this. I went thru it with FH too, but eventually (what DH calls his own time! ) it got done. But this is still something I contend with, he gets things done when he wants them done. It's somethng we have to get used to!
Good Luck, planning is a challenge, but I do think it helps both of you learn how to deal with one another.
Danielle623
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Don't be sad and don't feel alone! My FH doesn't really get involved either. He can care less about the little details where I want to make a million phone calls and share them with everyone. My gay bestfriend has been there with me every step of the way. He is even coming with me to register and FH isn't. I'm used to it though and have accepted that he just doesn't like doing this stuff. It upset me a lot at first but at the end of the day, I know his heart is in it and thats all I need. My FH (and yours) is part of the majority. I actually realized this even more at Pre-cana. All the couples had the same story. The girls did all the planning and the guys just sat back and watched. It was comforting to know that I wasn't the only one. Most guys don't really get involved. Don't feel bad. He wants to marry you.
debismom
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Jennifer, Do you want me to come down there and give him 50 lashes with a wet noodle? jk Mary MOB
SoonToBeMrsScott
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don't feel sad or alone I think we all go through it I am not away from family but I go through the same things with fh
bluekat16
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FH could sometimes care less about wedding stuff. Don't feel alone about this...it's frustrating but I think a lot of men just leave the planning to the women.
