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I'm so stressed...

Pinkiegirll07 Posted:

I'm so stressed...

My invitations are still not out yet and I'm getting married on September 15th....
The calligrapher's printer broke and we were supposed to have them back Tuesday, they weren't started until Tuesday. .
My RSVP date is August 3rd, so even if I can get them out on Monday people have less than 5 weeks to RSVP...Is that bad??
I'm so stressed right now!
Mooshyboo Posted:

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no dont worry sweetie ~ I am just getting mine out tomorrow ~ i have a 8/1 RSVP date... by the time they receive the invites it will be less than 4 weeks ~ I think you will be fine! my darling datttttttttttttttte twin!
Licee15 Posted:

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Good Morning:

It isn't that bad...Just stay on them- the squeskiest wheel gets the most oil!
Pinkiegirll07 Posted:

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Posted by Mooshyboo

no dont worry sweetie ~ I am just getting mine out tomorrow ~ i have a 8/1 RSVP date... by the time they receive the invites it will be less than 4 weeks ~ I think you will be fine! my darling datttttttttttttttte twin!



THank you Moosh!! I read in some stupid book that you're supposed to give your guests six weeks...so I'm panicking like an idiot!!

melisjoe Posted:

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mine are not out yet- hopefully tomorrow - but as someone pointed out to me the longer you give them to RSVP the longer they take!!!! he he so no worries!!!
Pinkiegirll07 Posted:

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Posted by melisjoe

mine are not out yet- hopefully tomorrow - but as someone pointed out to me the longer you give them to RSVP the longer they take!!!! he he so no worries!!!




This is probably true too!!
Thanks for posting !
SusiBtoM Posted:

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Posted by melisjoe

mine are not out yet- hopefully tomorrow - but as someone pointed out to me the longer you give them to RSVP the longer they take!!!! he he so no worries!!!



I agree ! Four weeks should be enough time to respond.
kris01 Posted:

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I think that is still plenty of time....don't worry!!!!
Heather11207 Posted:

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Don't worry! I know someone getting married at the end of August and she just called a couple of days ago to get my address! You have time
diva7531 Posted:

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It will be fine! You shouldn't worry!

Kara and Todd Posted:

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That's perfectly fine -- You have plenty of time! Don't worry about it!

0707Bride Posted:

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Hi Dana!
Don't worry - I just got my last RSVP two nights ago. I'm getting married in 8 days!!!! People are SO annoying. We had to call him to ask if he was coming!
B22 Posted:

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I'm sending mine out on Monday-- and Im getting married the day before you.

no worries...
curiousgeorge Posted:

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I got mine out last week and im in the first few days of September. My RSVP date is July 30th. You will be perfectly fine!!! Im sure the important people already know the date of your wedding!!!

trza17 Posted:

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Your fine. Why did you put such an early RSVP?

tbone66 Posted:

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I have been having major invitation stress too! My invites are probably not going out until around July 15 and my rsvp date is August 15.

At this point, I dont care if people dont have the proper amount of time. I'm sure they can figure out if they can come to my wedding in 4 weeks time.
Pinkiegirll07 Posted:

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Thank you everyone!!!
I think this is just the first of many things to approach in the next couple of weeks that is driving me insane!!!!!!
Thanks for making me feel better!!!
rfilipofornow Posted:

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i haven't sent mine out either and i'm getting married a week before you :-P

i wouldn't worry about it, people will still have plenty of time to RSVP

no stress allowed!
HelenZ Posted:

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Posted by Pinkiegirll07


Posted by Mooshyboo

no dont worry sweetie ~ I am just getting mine out tomorrow ~ i have a 8/1 RSVP date... by the time they receive the invites it will be less than 4 weeks ~ I think you will be fine! my darling datttttttttttttttte twin!



THank you Moosh!! I read in some stupid book that you're supposed to give your guests six weeks...so I'm panicking like an idiot!!




well if people responded on time, then maybe the six week rule would apply lol.....my RSVP is August 4th, so even though I'm giving them about 4 weeks, I'm sure I'll be getting mine up to 6 weeks after I mail out the invites anyway!! if the invite stuffing goes well tonight, they will prob. be out tomorrow...yay!! have no worries though!!! you have plenty of time!!
LuckySevens Posted:

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Don't Stress. From my invitation experience, iI have come to the conclusion that the more time people have between the time they receive the invite and the response date, the more likely they are to think they have so much time and forget when it is due and then it is late. On my responses date, i was missing 120 responses (approx. 60 response cards). I think you will be fine.

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